It's a bit complicated... one of my best friend's boyfriend kissed another close friend of both of ours. She chose to forgive him, which is her prerogative, and not my issue. My issue is that as I was closest to both the girls, I was told the whole story from the start. Others found out bits and peices, from a mix of sources, and my best friend's boyfriend has blamed me and used me as his emotional punching bag ever since. As a result, I can't stand him, and also question his committment to fixing the relationship. Do I tell my best friend or shut up about it?
2006-06-11 06:15:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Stay out of it. They will work it out. If you interfer they will blame you all over again. Try to be neutral if you can. Good luck.
2006-06-11 06:50:33 · answer #1 · answered by doglady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The boyfriend is blaming you for his bad behavior to divert the attention away from him. It really is none of your business, so you should tell anyone anything. I would say to everyone that you are staying out of it. They will all respect you.
2006-06-11 13:21:53 · answer #2 · answered by weswe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I will do the both because people need peace or sometimes people need to the best friends
2006-06-11 13:19:52 · answer #3 · answered by ~****gIRL$***~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay out of it because you already have drama over it and it'll get worse.
2006-06-11 13:19:51 · answer #4 · answered by Awesome Bill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell your best friend because you need to tell her. this man might not be the one for her, and she has a right to know how he is treating you.
2006-06-11 13:18:45 · answer #5 · answered by dancer0211 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the key word in your question is BLAME...stay out of it...it's none of your business...don't be gossiping to each other though...then you will be at blame
2006-06-11 13:18:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋