Me and my GF are always havin fight for no reasons.....lot of mosunderstandin......someone help me plz...
2006-06-11 04:10:55 · 30 answers · asked by sweet 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you both need to sit down and discuss these problems and work out a solution to why your always fighting and misunderstanding each other. sometimes it just needs some good communication and listening to one another to work it all out. good luck.
2006-06-11 04:13:21 · answer #1 · answered by vanessaoz 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You might not be compatable together even though you love each other.
You could seek out therapy or work on opening lines of communication. You should sit down and talk to her about all this. Hear her out then put in your two cents. Without communication you don't have a relationship. Try to see where she's coming from. Hopefully she'll see where you're coming from. Just remember to always be open and honest w/ each other. If you hid things or don't come forward with problems it can cause rifts in the relationship.
Best of Luck to you!
2006-06-11 04:15:34 · answer #2 · answered by Corn_Flake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes two to have an argument or fight. If one will just calm down and listen to the other then the fight soon will end. Anger only promotes anger. Hold your temper and do all you can to listen to the other. Not easy I know. With practice it will work. Also the other will soon see the change and start thinking about her attitude. You can not change her/ you only can change yourself. She will change if she wants to so a good example will go a long way to help her decide to change. One very important thing is not hold a grudge.
2006-06-11 05:04:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,
don't worry about that...I also have a boyfriend and fights r pretty frequently...but always after that we r just laughing. People pretty often fight for small, small things...after the fight usually we realize that...The best thing: just talk with your girlfriend about that, be open and honest. Maybe there is something more...misunderstanding...just talk about problem. Be cool...Currently I am learning how to not fight for small things. In life u can do more things that fighting. Just TALK, everything is gonna be fine, u will see :-) Good luck :-)
2006-06-11 04:20:19 · answer #4 · answered by kaska_gorska 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how old you are. My boyfriend and I fought like cats and dogs when we were dateing after about a year... then in time as we got older it kind of stopped and we learned to listen to one anothers opnion and not fight so much. LOL we ended up getting married 4 yrs later and still fight once and a while .. but all in all I think things should calm down as your relationship developes if you truly love her.
2006-06-11 04:16:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down and have a long talk with her and try to work out the misunderstandings. Communication is a very important part of any relationship.
If she's not willing to sit down and talk about it, or y'all continue to fight about every little thing then it's time to reevaluate the relationship.
Good luck.
2006-06-11 04:13:40 · answer #6 · answered by SmilingG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We can't help you... You need to help you.
Start by realizing that there is NO SUCH THING AS "No reason".
Oh... there's a reason alright... you just don't GET what it is.
Oftentimes... a string of disrespecting actions are STUFFED, and then something little (the straw, if you will)... and that STRAW is "nothing"...
what you have to "GET" is that the real couple of issues, have come and gone.
If she's important to you.. SIT her DOWN... and ask her... "WHAT have I done to offend or disrespect her"... Listen carefully, fix it... make it up to her... and TRY not to do it again.
Nothing? My EYE!
2006-06-11 04:14:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like you want to stay with her. Have you tried talking about how you feel? You could say 'we need to talk' and then discuss how you feel - that you're always fighting over pointless things, could we just stop fighting and work it out. Think about the arguments, if they are about pointless things, you could say to her, well it's only ...., or just agree with her. I agree with people if it's a trivial matter, then they just give up and we go back to normal! Just talk to her. If she really likes you she will understand, and being your girlfriend, she'll want to work things out like you. Best of luck.
2006-06-11 04:16:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may want to take a break for some time and think it over. Maybe you both were just spending too much time in the relationship. Talk to her and find out what she feels and thinks.
2006-06-11 04:16:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be more clear on what each of you are talking about. Give Each other time to talk and explain what they mean before you start talking out of turn because that is very rude and would be easily led to unnecessary arguments
2006-06-11 04:13:46 · answer #10 · answered by da_luvable 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shud BOTH try and see the other person's point of view. If there are misunderstandings then talk, communicate! tell her she's right about everything and that u'll take her out for a romantic dinner so tht she'll forgive u.
2006-06-11 04:15:26 · answer #11 · answered by aless. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋