how can i be less shy?

Question

i never socialise with anybody accept my bro, i don't want any friends i just want to do my years at school, then leave. any advice?

Answer 1

Build strength within yourself and find out, one incident at a time, that you are worth listening to or talking to.

Answer 2

Same thing happend to me really, about 2 years ago, i'm 15 now and i have about 30-40 friends where in secondry school i had 1, my best mate from primary (still was quite shy / lonely in lessons) when i was their i found the main solid reason i wasent gettin friends was i judged them while they were either talkin to others and things like that, people in school can be extremely strange, and alot of the time you meet "unique" people (i say that instead of insulting them) now if i were you i'd just go up to someone and introduce myself, or instead of introducin myself just "jump" into the conversation with someone and say something funny, make others laugh, and to attract attention from i account yourself lucky, for having a big bro in school, anyone ever hits you, you have someone to back you up, but still you dont need friends in school, school is there for learning, but still though mate use it as a social portal so to speak, you may as well what have you got to lose, you leave in about 5 years if that i should think, you might not see any again and you might see loads again, but if you did see them again would you rather walk right past them or talk have a sit down, a drink maybe, become friends in an adult life?
in my opinion you defently need friends in school, trust me, anywho i hope this answer help you friend.

Answer 3

. shy ness is good, but if u keep all this emotion inside u of being so shy,ull be depressed later on in life, and maybe regret saying something. u shud probally join a school club such as anime, gamers's club, azian american club to try to see people with ur interest and in ur situation. friends can help u feel the life in the air.

Answer 4

You just need to be yourself. If you feel comfortable with who you are you won't need to hide from people. The problem is how you manage to gain self-confidence. Try to get to know yourself better and don't hate your flaws and weaknesses: they are part of who you are. Don't get stressed: nobody is perfect. In fact, some people turn out to like us more for what we consider to be our less strong points rather than for what we are really proud of. If it's any consolation your shyness is bound to subside as you grow older. Good luck!

Answer 5

build some confidence in yourself and just talk to someone you see in your class that seems nice and build they will have friends who have friends etc. dont be friendless, life will be so lonely and it can the funnest experience you have. school friends are always there even when your 30. just be open to new people. dont be shy, no need to be. good luck!

Answer 6

You should really try and have some friends ,ask your brother to introduce you to some of his mates if their not too old for you ,maybe they have brothers younger that they are who are looking for mates aswell .You really need to get rid of your shyness .

Answer 7

you have to boost your self confidence.you can join some activity develop a hobby start thinking good about yourself throw away all the negative thoughts from your mind

Answer 8

hmmm... i think thats not right. hung up with friends are fun you could have more joy than just be around at home. you'll have more colourful day . believe me. why dont you try to have some now??

Answer 9

u need to change the way you think , if you want to be a member of society . no man is an island .

Answer 10

i am sorry. but i dont know how 2 help u. because i am facing the same problem