how to develop discreet intimate relationship while already married?

Answer 1

Don't

Answer 2

DON'T

All you'll get is a short time of thrills, but a long time of stress (trying to keep secrets and then trying to resolve things once you're caught, and dealing with the guilt of breaking someone's heart). If there are children involved - remember that this will effect them more than you and your spouse!

When you got married, you had feelings for that person that caused you to believe that you could "forsake all others" -- you must now examine what has happened to those feelings that you would consider breaking that promise.

Get counseling and couples counseling. Try to resurrect what once was. If you can't save the marriage, then make a clean, respectful and dignified break and move on with your life when the divorce is complete.

If you choose to do everything you can to try to make it work, then you will have no regrets; but if you choose to be unfaithful, you will likely have many.

Answer 3

DON'T DO IT!!!!!!!!!

it's a horrid thing to do to yourself, your spouse, and (if you have them) children, and the other person you have an intimate relationship with. if you are bored or unhappy in marriage seek a counselor, not another lover.

Answer 4

dont do it. a couple i knew about 10 years ago ran through several problems caused by him cheating on her. i still keep in touch with them and after all this time he is just now divorcing her. they went through 10 years of misery though first because he was dumb and cheated. you are going to cause trouble if you do it. if you arent happy in your marriage, get a divorce and dont cheat.

Answer 5

what? if you are really thinking about this you might want to put more effort into trying to figure out why you want to have an affair? do the vows to love & honor .....through sickness & health....till death do you part not mean anything anymore? dont be cruel.