Ladies, do you really want a man that cooks, cleans, does laundry, and drives the kids around?

Question

Or do you want a real man that lays on the couch and watches TV?

Answer 1

I think it depends. Typically that is my thing. There is nothing wrong with him helping as long as he does it correctly. That sounds ... bad I guess. But most guys just slap, slop and flop it to get it done. When I do it, it is an expression of me. It isn't just cooking, it is an art. It isn't just cleaning it is taking care of my nest. It isn't just laundry, it is who we are. They aren't just our children, they are our future. I think that I would feel a little threatened if my guy was to "interfere" with those things. There is nothing wrong with him helping tho. On the other hand, a man that is comfy in the kitchen (to at least help or even explore on his own every now and then) is as important as his skills when it comes to copulation in the bed room.

If I am taking care of all of those things and he just sits on the sofa and watches TV all the time.... he won't be around very long. If his job always has him working at home then that is okay, as long as he appreciates my "work" at home. If he isn't working at home then down time on the sofa watching TV isn't a bad thing. As long as nothing needs to be done around the house, like oil changes for the autos, or something needs to be repaired around the house, there is nothing sexier then a man with a tool belt. I can say that there is nothing more frustrating then a guy that just lays on the sofa and then when he does move he makes a mess everywhere. Hence my last boyfriend that is not my boyfriend anymore. You could find him by following the mess.

Gosh, I don't know if I am making any sense there or not. I know how I like ‘em. I guess a good balance of both as long as the "boundaries" of what makes me, me and him, him aren't crossed and we can meet in the middle. Kinda like a symphony being played out ever day that we dance too. I play my instrument and he plays his and together we make beautiful music.

Answer 2

I am a stay at home Mom who doesn't work outside the home. My husband works very hard to support our family of four. So no, I do not want a man who cooks , cleans, etc because I feel that that is my job, he does his share outside the home. I do expect help with all those things once in a while but primarily I like to take care of it myself. He has other things to do around the house so he does not lay around watching TV like a "real" man either. Plus when I,m sick or incapacitated in some way he always steps up and does my job. And besides, he is colour blind so when he sorts laundry that is quite funny and the only thing he can cook is Pizza Pops and Kraft Dinner.
Now if the situation was reversed and I was the breadwinner then hell yeah I'd want a man that cooks, cleans, does laundry, and drives the kids around.

Answer 3

I love a man for who he is, how he treats me and his ability to be honest and respectful. As for what I want, *thinks for a minute* I don't "want" for much. Everything is a shared effort. Since my husband works long and hard hours outside of the home and manages to commute 4 hours each day. I think the least I can do is cook, clean, do laundry and drive my daughter around. However, truth be told, on the weekends my husband not only takes part in every task needed to be done, he also manages to lay on the couch and watch tv with me (when he can pry me away from Y!A).

Answer 4

Of course i do want my man helps me but cook not everyday that is woman's things .He can do laundry,drives the kids around and play with it but doesnt mean that we treat slaves our husband .That is what supposed to do a family always helping ,sharing and giving .
If i had a husband that always; lays on the couch and watches tv all the time .I will kick his *** to get outside " right away".Good for lazy husband .
I think this is will be helpful to you .

Answer 5

Nothing is sexier than a man in the kitchen. I'll do the laundry......I love driving the kids around. But if he cooks......I'd be the happiest girl in the world!

.........and then after dinner we can BOTH lay on the couch and watch TV. :)

Answer 6

And then I can lay on the couch and watch tv?

A bit boring, and a waste of time.

But how about a man that shares all those tasks with me? (apart from the cooking, I like cooking) Or even better, how about hiring someone that does all that for me and my man, and then we can go and enjoy the sun together?

Answer 7

A man that cooks, cleans, does laundry, and drives the kids around seems like a dream guy. but all women would go for that instead of a lazy bustard. being helpful and responsible is always a turn on.

Answer 8

I want a man that cooks, cleans, does laundry, drives the kids around AND be a REAL man at the same time. =)

Answer 9

I like a real man that likes sports fishing etc but not afraid to help around the house when I had a bad day or cook a nice meal to be romantic and spend time with his kids its all about give and take and sharing

Answer 10

1. It is important that a man helps you around the house and has a job.

2. It is important that a man makes you laugh.

3. It is important to find a man you can count on and doesn't lie to you.

4. It is important that a man loves you and spoils you.

5. It is important that these four men don't know each other.