Have you ever stalked someone or been stalked yourself?

Question

Marianne_not_ginger, is that you who has been leaving flaming bags of dog turd on my doorstep. Please stop!

I'm just curious because I've never encountered it

Answer 1

ok, i had stopped for almost a month now......damn, i have started again;)

Answer 2

"flaming bags of dog turd" Adam Sandler would be proud.

I sometimes worry that people on here will think I'm stalking them because I keep 'bumping into' the same posters.

I had an ex stalk me for 6 months, beating the sh*t out of me wasn't enough for him and the police couldn't do anything about it.

Answer 3

No,I have never stalked someone, but my "guy friend" said I was when I just asked him a question and he said i was stalking him. He really pissed me off and I got down to the point of telling him I hate him and all kinds of other stuff. No one has ever stalked me. So there ya go. And I don't want it to happen either.

Answer 4

I have been mildy stalked but it was very innocent and the minute the guy saw me with a huge male friend he left me alone. He really was just trying to come up to me and talk but he was very shy. It was just that he kept coming over to me at different times in all these different places. I really don't know how our paths kept crossing.
I have never stalked anyone and I wouldn't be bothered doing it.

Answer 5

I've been stalked by somebody i grew up with, even now he still manages to get my phone number and won't leave me alone he's not as bad as he was though I think he might be a little bit scared of my best friend (who's male) that has told him he will seriously hurt him if he doesnt leave me alone

Answer 6

Nope. I've never been stalked or stalked anyone. Although seeing how most people who have answered have said yes, I'm starting to feel left out!

Answer 7

yes several years ago I was stalked by a guy that I dated a couple of times. He would sit outside my place of employment for hours, call me constantly, send me flowers, follow me, etc.. I had my Dad tell him to back off or we were going to contact the authorities and even that didn't stop him. So I had some friends take care of it for me. I won't give details, but he never bothered me again.

Answer 8

For ages there was someone who used to phone my mobile on a withheld number non stop. They didn't talk though, they just used to beep the buttons on their phone at me.

Most of the time I just let them waste their credit by leaving my phone on the side. Then I told them that if they were going to beep and never talk, perhaps one beep should mean yes and two mean no. I tried to work out who they were by the responses or background noise but never worked it out. They must have eventually got bored because they just stopped doing it in the end.

Just remembered another incident.
When I was 16 I was seeing a guy who was a lot older than me. I realised quite quickly that I didn't want it to go anywhere so I told him that I didn't want to see him anymore. He then started calling me telling me that he was in love with me even though he barely knew me and all we had done was kiss. He also used to always appear where ever I went and just stare at me. I remember once spotting him before he saw me and crawling on my hands and knees behind a row of parked cars to avoid him! Luckily when he found himself a girlfriend he left me alone.

Answer 9

yeah, once i was waiting to enter university and i did part time teaching where i was posted to an all-girls school. being the only single young male teacher really made me nervous especially for the first time in my life, girls were actually whistling at me! imagine that haha! anyway, there was this one student who had a crush on me and wrote a letter saying that she'd kill herself if i don't love her back. sadly the letter never got to me because she was busy showing it off to her classmates and it got lost. i heard the news from the next-door class. when i left the school, she actually called my cell phone, like, almost everyday and threatened to fight my girlfriend over me! i was quite in a dilemma because even though she was a stalker, she was also my ex-student, and i don't want to get into trouble with the law and everything. i managed to avoid her but i found out that she's been telling people in her friendster blog that she's still seeing me and that i am her boyfriend. my advice to you : NEVER be nice to EVERYbody...

Answer 10

I was stalked by my ex GF once. But i got a restraining order and she finally ended up in a mental hospital.

Answer 11

yes. I broke up with my boyfriend when I found out he was married. We work at the same place and he used to follow behind me after I left the parking lot. He'd get real close to my car and then zoom around me. He lives 30 min. south of the job. I live 40 min. east. He followed me one night when I was going to my new boyfriends. I was almost their and thankfully lost him at a red light. He only stopped after another employee asked him why he was trying to scare me.