2006-06-11 02:24:30 · 26 answers · asked by BLk@GirL 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You really should wait. First of all, there are too many risks involved, the biggest one being pregnancy. No matter how careful you are, condoms to break. You don't want to be bogged down with the responsibilities of motherhood at such a young age. Enjoy your teen years, and your twenties. Go to college, have fun and be free. I've had too many friends get pregnant too soon and not enjoy the freedoms I had the pleasure of enjoying.
So many sexually transmitted diseases are incurable, and you're stuck with them forever.
Most boys tend to have sex with a girl and never think a second thought about it. Sex is a big responsiblity. It is something very special you should only share with the right person. If you fall in love with this person, you would not believe how powerful having sex with them is...it can make the feeling so much stronger. If he breaks your heart, it is going to hurt you for so much longer than you've ever imagined.
Trust me, I lost my virginity far too young, took many pregnancy tests that were thankfully negative; but the scares were enough to stress me out for months!! I'm now 31, married with a lovely 3 year old son and another little boy on the way in 5 1/2 weeks. I truly enjoyed my 20's, especially not having to deal with being a young, single mother, or trapped in a marriage I was unhappy in.
Take your time, enjoy being a kid, have fun, enjoy having a boyfriend, but don't cross that line unless you are really sure he is the one. If I were you, I'd wait until you were at least 18. The older you are, the more special it is, and the better the possibility you will lose your virginity to the right person.
2006-06-11 02:35:15 · answer #1 · answered by Carly829 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, you can drive a car with your feet....but that doesn't make it a good idea!!! If you have not had sex before now, please give yourself some time!! Have you talked to your mom or a trusted adult about your thoughts? Having sex is SOOOO much more than just laying down for somone. It's responsible birth control, it's responsible STD control, it's being old enough to handle the consequences if your responsible birth control fails, and it could, no matter WHAT you use unless you have had a complete hysterectomy. It's being mature enough to not have to lie to be able to be in the situation to HAVE sex. And have you thought about what your relationship will be like AFTER you engage in sex? Because it WILL change. The focus of it will no longer be just getting to know one another, or spending quality tiime together. Now the focus will be on 'how can we get things set up so that we can make love' ? Are you prepared for what will happen if your parents, if they do not agree with your decision to go ahead with a sexual relationship, find out that you ARE having sex behind their backs? You will have lost their trust, and who knows how long it would take you to get it back!
All I'm saying honey, is think this through VERY carefully before you make any life altering changes such as this one. Please be careful, no matter what you decide!
2006-06-11 02:45:42 · answer #2 · answered by themom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I have to say is wait. I lost my virginity 3 months after i turned 15. And boy do I regret it. And 2 months thats not that long. Wait a Little longer. If he cant wait then he aint worth it. I found that out. But if you do deside to have sex with him..then use a condom at least. Because having a baby at the age of 15 or 16 isnt any fun at all. Trust me on that because my daughter is a year old..n it aint not fun at all. I dont regret havin her she is my life but i do regret losing my virginity that young.
Wait a while.
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2006-06-11 03:09:57 · answer #3 · answered by innocentbabiigurl5606 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.....you can but you shouldn't society has made us believe that now a days sex is not a big deal and we can be going from one person to another with no problems, that's in not true you are way to young to understand how much responsibility is to have sex all the risks, and problems that 15 min of pleasure can bring. Wait life is to important to be rush trough it. Ones you are married and have your kids you will appreciate not have been dome ans been sleeping around with guys, because Trust me you are not marring this one.
2006-06-11 02:43:38 · answer #4 · answered by xihuitl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a mother my answer would have to be a big NO hope your next question is should i have a baby also 2 months that is only 8 weeks come back in 2 years and let us know if the guy is still around if he is then maybe the answer will change but the smartest thing you can do is wait what is the hurry
2006-06-11 02:33:56 · answer #5 · answered by LOLO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, not a good idea. Do you want to have a child and have your entire life changed at 15? Also keep in mind that some guys will leave after the 'conquest'.
2006-06-11 02:30:54 · answer #6 · answered by oklatom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to give your body to someone after just knowing them for 60 days? You are way too young and 2 months is too short.
2006-06-11 02:56:53 · answer #7 · answered by KathyS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait untill your 18. you dont want to end up with a baby.. or just get some birth control pills. then I guess it would be okay.
2006-06-11 02:28:46 · answer #8 · answered by Kristen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant tell u what to do but if i was u i would wait until i was legal to decide whether or not i am ready to have sex. If i wasnt then i would wait until i was
2006-06-11 02:40:46 · answer #9 · answered by Sexy D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmm i wouldnt. u need to be with a guy for a long time. if he wants to have sex with u now he's prolly using u.
2006-06-11 02:47:38 · answer #10 · answered by amandax086 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋