as in your together with someone,but all you want is sex.
2006-06-11 01:46:46 · 20 answers · asked by and we all have loved before 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
as in you don't like the person AT ALL but your in for the sex.
2006-06-11 01:48:48 · update #1
No. Beauty is only skin deep.
2006-06-11 01:48:39 · answer #1 · answered by Ahhh....Me Time 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not likely that you would go through life and not be sexually attracted to someone. It is natural that these feelings can be intense and take a lot of effort to manage. Your problem is that you don't like this person, but feel sexually attracted. You might want to look inside yourself and at your past to understand why you are attracted to a person that you do not like. Has this happened before? What is it about this person that you do not like? It may be that this person is attracted to you and you are just responding against your will, or maybe they are even being seductive.
On my last job I felt attracted to a married man on the management team who I did not like because he was ambitious and unkind to people that he thought were in his way to getting ahead. When I realized that he was attracted to me but felt threatened by me, I was able to let it go, realizing that I did not really want him or the job he wanted and that the conflict was just inappropriate and insignificant for me. If the person you are attracted to is single and you are single, then perhaps you can get over not liking him and have a nice friendship. You would need to start developing your relationship into a well rounded one by taking an interest in him from a safe distance, finding out about his other interests and needs before proceeding with the relationship.
2006-06-11 02:06:42 · answer #2 · answered by Bond girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's okay to be physically attracted to someone.
Now, how you act on that attraction is where it gets complicated.
Do you engage in pure casual sex without emotion,or is there more of an attraction beyond the physical?
A physical attraction will only last so long.
2006-06-11 01:52:34 · answer #3 · answered by dgrhm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is OK to be only physically attracted to someone. Is it right to ACT on that attraction with someone you don't even like and actually have sex with that person? Right or not, it happens all the time. Myself, I've progressed to the point of, if I don't even like her, I'm not likely to treat her to orgasms from MY efforts and penis. Just let him or her know up front that it is no strings attached and only for the sex. There's no sense in purposely causing heartache in the partner who was, after all, nice enough to have sex with you.
2006-06-11 02:02:34 · answer #4 · answered by ponysense 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wouldn't it be in your mind if thats what you feel. But the main thing is how about the person who you want to just have sex with. Where do they come into the picture. Ask & find out.....
2006-06-11 03:09:10 · answer #5 · answered by silhouette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with it as long as no one gets hurt due to it..In other words get the understanding of the relationship a mutual agreement between the two people involved..If you both know and agree its a physical thing then its okay..but..if you lead them to believe otherwise you are being selfish and arrogant..
2006-06-11 01:55:12 · answer #6 · answered by *toona* 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay and it not okay at the same time. I think you need to make sure that the personly you're with only likes you for sex too. Because if they have more feelings for you than you do for them, you should just end it now, because it's not fair to them. Good luck.
2006-06-11 02:02:34 · answer #7 · answered by Carrie P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are like that, but they are missing out on the love that is associated with the sex.
2006-06-11 01:50:21 · answer #8 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is ok...if you are physically attracted to someone it means you wnat that person to have a one night stand..its not love..its a lust..some are physically attractive bcoz they admire the others body coz of good shape..yummy..and some admire coz they want to have that kind of physical shape..
2006-06-11 01:54:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Physical attraction can be so powerful dat........ it takes your breath away. but only physically attraction is not enough in a relationship.......it's jus attraction....... cannot b called as love!!!
2006-06-11 02:16:56 · answer #10 · answered by diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.
stop doing that!
now dont u be attracted to me now u easily-get-attracted-to-body-and-only-wants-sex person!
go away!!
2006-06-11 01:51:12 · answer #11 · answered by vanilla2415 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋