2006-06-11 01:39:58 · 10 answers · asked by precious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think its cause he has already cheated & you dont trust him anymore....DITCH HIM....trust is already lost!
2006-06-11 01:54:19 · answer #1 · answered by flowergirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, maybe not, depends on the person. My ex was my first love; however, he was also a serial cheater. Before dated him, I really didn't know anything about relationships. I also watched many Oprah shows that tell you everything about "the signs"
- overly charming
- wierd temper
- secretive
- mentally abusive
Well...I think it was only after a week that I went to my roomate and said "I think he is dating someone else, something inside me just tells me that it true" but..what;s an intuition? Do I didn't listen. So after a year of lies, I was left broke, hurt, confused, and my self confidence dropped.
Now...I have met the most wonderful person. And have been dating him for a year..It was almost meant to be and he literally just fell into my lap. But down side? He was once a cheater.. I thought about it a lot, thinking once a cheater always a cheater...but so far, my only gut feeling is that he truely cares. And some may think I'm stupid, but no matter how many times you've been hurt, you still have to get up and start over. And in order to truely love someone, you must trust them.
2006-06-16 19:53:24 · answer #2 · answered by Apple_Lotion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i use to cheat back in the day but i haven't in a few year but i had to remove my self from a lot of things like where i use to hang out and a lot of the people i hung out with and yeah it still goes through my mind every now and then but it ain't worth it to much to lose and i only feel that way when things suck at home but they get better and i have also dated many cheaters in my past to many to count and i think the saying stay as stated unless the person is willing to give up a lot cause if i didn't give up a lot i know for a fact i would still cheat so all i can say if you are with a cheater i wish you the best of luck because 9 out of 10 they will do it again. sorry to be the one to tell you the bad news. the whole intuition that is a lot of wishful thinking been there to. good luck
2006-06-11 08:50:37 · answer #3 · answered by LOLO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me answer this question in reverse
My best advice is to always follow your intuition because it is your truest voice; the one not clouded by other thoughts, feelings and issues. If you sense things are happening but you can't quite put your finger on it, chances are that you are right: something IS happening. For example, a private detective once told me that if people sense that their partner is having an affair but they don't have proof of it, 98% of the time they are right. They are picking up the subtle clues their partner is putting out there, even if the partner thinks they are covering it up. I knew it myself when my ex was fooling around behind my back - I picked up on it. So follow that inner voice of yours always, and not just about affairs - it can work with anything and everything in life; work, etc.
As for once a cheater, always a cheater: That adage has been bandied about quite a bit and there is some truth to it, at least in my humble opinion, but it isn't always the case. Some people are more inclined to be cheaters because they simply aren't ready to fully invest and commit themselves to their relationship, while others may cheat once (as a retaliatory measure if they have found out their partner is cheating, for example) and realize it isn't all it's cracked up to be and thus never cheat again. It really is an individual response and can't be generalized.
Good luck
2006-06-11 08:54:44 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Pea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my own experiences I do believe a cheater repeats their behavior over time,however I am sure there are exceptions to this as well..Intuition is a powerful emotion to embrace and is worthy of your trust..Most women will tell you it has been true to them..
2006-06-11 08:49:59 · answer #5 · answered by *toona* 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well when one cheats once without paying for it(u know for cheating) if they arn't taught a lesson then yes they'll do it again if they arn't caught they'll do it again if they arn't happily satisfied with the women they have now they'll cheat or sometimes when a womens after a men alot u know when a man feels he has his women in his hands that he feels his womens crazy over him he'll cheat if another women comes along. But sometimes and this differs from person to person they'll change and not do it again. Intuoition well i'll just say this if you feel in your heart your spouse has changed well he might of BUT you can no longer give him back all the trust you once gave him.
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yours truly Cupid
2006-06-11 09:03:54 · answer #6 · answered by Cupid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater always a cheater. intution doesn't help over here but mind do
2006-06-11 08:45:38 · answer #7 · answered by sunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely trust your intuition. I was always sorry when I didn't!
2006-06-11 09:24:42 · answer #8 · answered by donnabbb43 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your intuition, it's telling you something.
2006-06-11 08:43:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a phrase, and people like phrases.
Trust your intuition.
I'm sure of all the people who have cheated, some have changed their ways. It depends on the person, their values. etc.
2006-06-11 08:50:18 · answer #10 · answered by cowgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋