lately i have been getting these stares from guys. I dont know they're like... shocked. I dont wear provocative clothing but then again I think that they think that im weird or something. Im not pretty nor ugly, not fat nor thin. Dont know how to interpret their stares I think they look somewhat a mix of mad-shocked look. Do you think I look weird based on what i have described? I dont get those looks from girls. It just makes me worry lately. Pls help im not kidding. PLEASE PLEASE dont make fun of meee
2006-06-11 01:38:37 · 9 answers · asked by ? 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I am guessing that you are a teenager and that you have just started to develope based on your previous questions.
They are men that are seeing you for the first time as "a woman" not a little girl anymore.Men are very perceptive and are quite aware what is happening to you now. Your hormones are racing and so are theirs! They aren't mad at you--they are interested. If you are not yet of legal age and the men you are talking about are- then they are not able to approach you without being seen as a perv. The odd looks may be the only way they can gesture toward you that they think you look hot! Just get used to it...this is only the beginning.
2006-06-11 02:01:39 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Just remember that sometimes people reflect their own agendas back to you. Maybe you happen to be running into the dudes that are on overdrive testosterone. You never will know what is going on in their brains, but if they are teenagers, they are probably living their own fantasy about you, center stage. You may just have some clair sentient abilities, and don't know how to read the information that you are picking up. Just imagine yourself in your own emotional circle. When you percieve one of these "wierd" feelings, just ask it to leave...and then notice how you feel inside your own emotional circle. Try it--it's the way that I separate what's mine and what's not mine. People project all kinds of stuff all the time. Good luck, and no, I don't think you're nuts.
2006-06-11 01:49:59 · answer #2 · answered by magnamamma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately there are not enough details to really answer you, but I can give a few suggestions.
1) They are men. Men stare and being the crude creatures they are, they don't hide their thoughts too well.
2) You may have a unique style that draws their attention.
3) You could just be so outstandingly marvelous that they don't believe it.
2006-06-11 01:44:19 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, maybe you're just growing up and guys are starting to notice you. Maybe they have been looking all along and you're just starting to notice that. No, you don't sound like a weirdo, just lighten up a bit.
2006-06-11 01:42:53 · answer #4 · answered by PariahMaterial 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well no one in this world can make other people happy...Just God knows how to make a person happy.
Noone is fully satisfied in this world. you just remain the way you are... keep yrself happy...y do you even bother for people who are not even worth caring for...you should care for yrself-not for others... Life is too short to give stupid people importance!
hope this helps
2006-06-11 01:55:34 · answer #5 · answered by HaPPy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible that they just think you're hot. Maybe they're just staring based on your clothing or hair color or something highly noticeable?
2006-06-11 01:42:53 · answer #6 · answered by goshimwaycool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really didn't give us a description.Maybe no one is looking at you or your walking around looking angry at the world..can't really say.
2006-06-11 01:41:57 · answer #7 · answered by rachellynn200 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where is your self confident, if they are looking to you in this way so what never give them attention because that mean that you are as they said, so don't never ever
2006-06-11 01:46:45 · answer #8 · answered by rnoosh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think your a psycho...maybe it's just the way ya look...hey...maybe guys think your really pretty...hehe =) it could be a good thing...
2006-06-11 01:42:15 · answer #9 · answered by Emily H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋