Is my friend gay?

Question

I have a friend called Trev who is a bit camp to say the least. He likes pink and loves shopping for shoes. The other day he was sat down when we saw a pink thong come up from his jeans. So he likes he's cross dressing stuff. Do you think we should confront him and ask him if he is gay or just beat him up?

Answer 1

Why do you need to know whether he's gay or not? And why on earth do you think, if he is, it would be a reason to beat him up?
This is his personal thing. And as long as he does not harass any of you (in case he is), you should respect his personal sphere.

Answer 2

don't beat him up. Gay isn't a crime. Some people are just well gay. But ask him about. If your not confortable with the way he dresses. Tell him. Suggest to go shopping for more clothes that wouldn't offend you and clothes he's okay wearing. I have a friend just like it. Except were not friends at the same time. It's confusing. i know.

Answer 3

There's lots of gay people in the world. We don't beat up every one we meet.
Be glad you have a gay friend so you can get to know that they are just normal people with a different perversion than you.
At this point in time gays are accepted as part of the diversity that makes up this country.
If he hits on you beat him senseless.:o}

Answer 4

and you've known him for how long? i mean why would you want to beat him up? he's your friend, you're supposed to respect HIS choices. I mean he isn't hurting any one at all. if it bothers you so much, just ask him if he's gay, if he says yes, just take it like a man and accept it. it isn't your problem anyway, unless he's hitting on you, then you just tell him to leave you alone and not talk to him ever again. it's that simple, you shouldn't beat people up for that. what will you do if an other gay guy comes up to you, beat him up too? that's sad if you said "yes" to the question i just asked you.

Answer 5

so what if he is who gives a crap? If he is gay it's not some disease don't be so narrow minded. Im not gay, Im a straight female but have had some beautiful male and female friends who are gay. Not my lifestyle choice but not my right to judge either. Our world should be a place of free choices as long as we are not hurting others and he isn't. He's just being himself let him be and if he ever talks to you about it act like a mature and supporting friend not a closed minded judgemental and immature person.

Answer 6

aw don't beat him up. Just ask him. If he really is gay, it doesn't matter. If you were truly his friend in the first place then it shouldn't change things now. Sure, it might seem weird, but think about how he feels. So, stop being an a** and just be his friend.

Answer 7

just because a man likes to shop for shoes and likes the color pink doesn't make him gay and why would you even consider beating this person up if you call him your friend a true friend would never beat up another they call a friend just because he has drifferent likes from you

Answer 8

Really, what does it matter if he is gay? He is not hitting on you, so just leave the subject alone. Theres too much violence and intolerance in this world. Live and let live. Be a friend, not a judge. If it bothers you, back off on the friendship.

Answer 9

does it really matter if he is gay? would it make u less of a man if he's gay? would beating him up make u a better person? beating him is only a manifestation of a good waste of testosterone. jeeze...a lot of gays are even much productive in their existence than straight guys. if they weren't gay men, then the women in this world would be far less beautiful.

Answer 10

Dont do either you berk! what kind of friend are you? if he is a true friend to you then you wouldnt be questioning what his sexual orientation is. As for beating him up, that is sick, you clearly have issues with gay people and need help for that.