My cousin is 24, Married, has 4 kids & a BF.....her Husband is living/working in Washington/West Virginia area.....He came down here a wk ago & surprised her & caught BF in the house....& now he wants a divorce.....For the past wk....she has been on Vacation with her Mother & her kids in Tennesee......ok....so today, her Husband calls me & says that come Mon....I need to get my kids out of the house.....he says that between Mon-Wed that somethings are going to go down that he doesnt want me & the kids involved in.....& that we need to get out of the house at least until Fri......he wont tell me what it is.....but should I warn cousin?.....he asked me not too.....My cousin has recently gotten into Coke real bad & isnt taking care of her kids....I am picking up the slack of taking care of her kids & cleaning the house, plus working & taking care of my own kids....he wants to get divorced & take his kids away from her......His Father told me today that he is planning on having the cops...
2006-06-10 22:31:28 · 13 answers · asked by mysticfairy74 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
& CPS show up.....but will call me before he gets here to make sure I am gone....should I warn my cousin?
2006-06-10 22:31:58 · update #1
OK...I am interested...because I live in the same house....I am afraid of being dragged into it.....& possibly losing my own kids....I dont do drugs....I dont drink....& I dont have men coming in & out of my house/room.....BUT....I do live in the same house as her.....so I am scared to death....but I am also afraid she is going to turn this around & blame me somehow....she cant throw me out...the lease is in my name....I havent thrown her out...because of the kids....
2006-06-10 22:40:41 · update #2
I just found out she was doing Coke like 2 wks ago.....I knew she was on something...but didnt know what.....I found by walking in on her...she promised not to have it in the house anymore....which I dont know if she upheld it...I thought she was just mostly taking the easy way out...since now she had someone else here to pick up her slack....didnt know it was this serious....I wished she would have had BF leave...but she refused to listen to me with that...when I told him to leave....he told me I was not going to win this one....he is out now....but he will be back.....
2006-06-10 22:44:08 · update #3
Luks to me like ur cousin has been pretty stupid!
she shud have never had a boyfriend when she was married...that is plain cheating!!
and she shud have taken care of her kids instead of running off with some man!
She deserves to have someone tell her what a mess she has made out of her own life!
But still she is ur cousin and u would wanna help her.....I suggest u tell sumone else from ur family about whats goin on....like ur cuzin's mother or sister.....
U better take the kids and keep them out of all this rubbish!
2006-06-10 22:43:06 · answer #1 · answered by Jean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I have a question for you. Why have you done nothing about the fact that your cousin is doing cocaine and neglecting her children? Also, why is she having a live-in boyfriend while her husband is out there working his @ss off to pay for the home she lives in? You cousin has problems, and she has no business having children around if she is going to live like that. Let the man get CPS involved so he can get his kids away from her before one of them starts getting curious about the white powder that Mommy loves more than them.
2006-06-11 05:40:34 · answer #2 · answered by Gregie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is time to have the law take care of this problem. Tell the local police just what was said and they will most likely put someone to watch the place and be ready for what ever is going to happen. Tell them straight and only what you know for sure. I definitely would call what he said a real threat. A dangerous threat.
2006-06-11 06:51:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.. forget your cousin,it sounds like coke is more important to her than her kids. Concentrate on the kids.. they're gonna need a lot of help and love..i think the husband's right to take them away from the influence of such a mom.
2006-06-11 05:37:54 · answer #4 · answered by princess h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a hard one. you need to look out for the children first of all
wheter or not to tell her, i dont know. if you feel her life is in danger then maybe you should get cops involved. but if not i probably wouldnt tell her
good luck with that
2006-06-11 05:40:29 · answer #5 · answered by Courtney A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definately.....family first. she needs to get help, but from my own personal experience (my brother is all into that stuff but is doing well in rehab), cops make it worse and once ur in the system, u never leave....... warn her, seriously, warn her.
2006-06-11 05:36:22 · answer #6 · answered by sball124 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is complicated... if hes playing wrong with your cousion , then you should suerly tell her and warn her.
2006-06-11 05:37:03 · answer #7 · answered by Jas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you in the middle of all this crap? and the Innocent kids? it is your duty to protect those kids if nothing else...
2006-06-11 05:36:11 · answer #8 · answered by Pooks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not your problem!
Let him find solution him self.
Why are you so much interested!?
2006-06-11 05:38:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes warn her
2006-06-11 05:35:17 · answer #10 · answered by kiss2envy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋