can anybody help me ..please help me help?

Question

I AM A 15 YEAR OLD GIRL I WOULD LIKE TO HAVE A TRUE MAIL FRIEND ..WHAT SHOULD I DO FOR THAT CAN ANY ONE OF YOU HELP ME.....PLEASE

Answer 1

be yourself. I've always had all male friends... and I'm just myself. They talk about sex and girls and what not I laugh listen and remind them that.... me... nope.... and thats it. They respect me and look at me as a lil sis... thats it

Answer 2

Do you want a "mail" friend or a "male" friend.
A mail friend would be someone who corresponded with you regularly as in pen pal.
A male friend is a man type friend.

If you want a pen pal just ask for people to write to you.

If you want a male friend you have to be a friend yourself. Friendly people attract other people to them. Practice smiling a lot. Really! Look in the mirror and smile hard for 30 seconds. Then relax. Your mouth will naturally go into a smile. If you want friends for pure friendship you must be a friend first. Make friends with all the shy people you know and the next thing you know you will be one of the most popular girls in town. Show a genuine interest in everyone you find that is shy. Get all excited when you see them, every time you see them. Pretty soon you will wish you had some time alone. It really works, I practice it every day. I get the name of everyone I meet so that the next time I meet them I can call them by name. A persons name is the most important possession they have. Recognition is a powerful tool in your arsenal of friendship. Next listen to them when they talk to you and pick up on all their information. You can start your next conversation with them by asking them about something they talked about before. Pretty soon they get the idea that you really do like them for what they are. (You ask a question about them and let them do all the talking. They'll think you are their best friend. And because you are doing all this you would be their best friend).
Now here is the cool part. You have been practicing all this friendship on everyone you meet. It shows how neat a person you really are and WHAMO! It happens, your stuck with 3 or 4 male friends trying to date you at the same time.
Choices, choices. Who do I go out with first? It's a hard life.

Practice, practice, practice.

Answer 3

Do you mean "mail" as in a pen-pal? Or do you mean a true MALE friend, as in a guy, a boy, a dude, a penis-owner? Either way, the Internet is the wrong place to go searching for this at age 15.

Answer 4

Dear Friend,

I hate to give you a negative answer, yet true friendship is very rare in both real & virtual lives.

Take it one step at a time, dont let people disapoint you so dont expect any thing from any one.

Sorry if my answer hit you, I was trying to be as honest as I can.

Answer 5

First of all you may try not typing in all caps, and it is also spelled male. Now that that is out of the way, just be yourself and stop trying to impress everyone. If you go out of you way to fit in you will never truely have friends. So just be yourself. Oh, and btw, if you ever need someone to talk to, just send me an email. good luck.

Answer 6

If you are looking for a true friend, don't look on the internet. There are too many sick people out there. At your tender age you could expose yourself to more harm than you think.

Answer 7

Mail me at [e-mail] I Could be the one.

Answer 8

where ae you from? Why do you need a mail friend.. you dont have real friends or you have something to share with your mail friend that you cant with your real friends

Answer 9

15 YEARS OLD . I HAVE GRAND DAUGHTERS YOUNGER THEN YOU . I HOPE YOU FIND A TRUE E MAIL FRIEND.

Answer 10

you need more school not a male/mail friend, check how you worded your question

Answer 11

Dear,there are too many perverted people..Believe me..I do care for you and girls at your age and would not like you to be "hurted" in any way.Why you don't look for friends in yahoo messenger,or ICQ..