My husband and a friend got into a very large fight about 3 months ago During this fight my hubby's friend put stuff online (he does online diary things) about why my hubby is a bad person and said so NASTY thinigs about him such as my hubby is a passionless shell of man who has nothing to live for expect that he somehow got me to marry him. etc. They have now decided to be friends again but I still am kinda mad at him for the stuff he said and don't trust him at all. He basically thinks I am a huge b*tch now beacuse I don't really want him to be a huge part of our lives and thinks I have no business have an opinion about their fight at all; that it was just between the 2 of them. Why can't he understand. . . He hurts my hubby, he has to deal with me?
2006-06-10 20:21:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He is basically an insensitive jerk. You and your hubby are one unit, if one gets hurt so does the other. He publicly displayed an argument the two of them had online, you are right to not trust him because if he gets in an argument with you he'll probably be putting stuff online about you as well. Venting his frustrations with your husband's is acceptable but he chose such a public forum that you obviously had access to, which makes that unacceptable. Since he and your hubby are determined to be friends again, the best you can do is to simply remain polite to him but don't confide in him ever. Good luck.
2006-06-10 20:31:30 · answer #1 · answered by moma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would your "hubby " be friends with someone he knows has an evil streak? you may be a huge bytch but it really isn't any of his business. all this seems a bit childish to me anyways. friend is making him choose between him or you. another indication of his evil ways. your husband should let his friend know that if he alienates you he can't be his friend any more. it's a package deal. no one can come between 2 married people.
2006-06-11 03:33:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing that you could do, is sit this person down and inform him how much you love your husband.. and that when someone hurts him it does have everything to do with you.. if that doesn't work , talk to your husband and let him know how you feel about this whole situation... Godd luck..
2006-06-11 03:30:15 · answer #3 · answered by mystic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him if you feel you must, otherwise let your husband have a friendship with him with out your involvement.
2006-06-11 03:33:07 · answer #4 · answered by mjfluffypuff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋