just to get it out there...i am gay....always have been, but this thing i need to talk about is love and what to do with it once it starts to slip away....no worries....i am past the crying my eyes out and simply want my eyes opened a bit more...my friends and family try, but they are too close to the situation. i just wanna chat and talk about life and love with someone who will listen and tell me what you honestly think....please no pervs or smarty arties....i am really reaching out here....you can contact me through this page and i will give you my yahoo messenger if we seem compatible. please, serious answers only.
2006-06-10 19:54:59 · 9 answers · asked by melissa 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i am 38 years old.....this is not a teen age crush
2006-06-10 20:06:20 · update #1
What's the question luv??? How can I help?
2006-06-10 19:58:00 · answer #1 · answered by Dolphin lover 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is love, gay or otherwise. Only time can heal a broken heart and depending on how deep you fall as to how long it will take to mend. If your relationship is past the point of no return and the slipping love can not be retained then you need to move on and start the healing process. My advice, don't rush into anything new. You don't want a rebound relationship on top of a broken heart. Contact me if you want. I am not gay, but I will be a friend, a shoulder and some one who will listen and help where I can.
2006-06-11 03:24:48 · answer #2 · answered by Cricket 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is tough. I don't know how old you are or the circumstances of your break up, but know this. You will be okay, you will be loved again and you will love again. If you have made a formal commitment to the person you love- I strongly suggest that you dig in your heels and keep the relationship. If you are a young person, then maybe you take what you have learned from this relationship to make yourself a better person and make your next relationship better.
2006-06-11 03:00:05 · answer #3 · answered by bortiepie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I mean I'm straight but I'm pretty sure love is universal so I'm guessing the only thing you can do is talk about it because communication is the salvation to all relationships while procrastination just leaves more gaps and more awkwardness between the two. So maybe what I'm trying to say is instead of trying to find someone to talk to you should talk to that who you love.
2006-06-11 03:00:17 · answer #4 · answered by Zo Show 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just to get it out there I am a married (happily) straight male, but I have 30 + years of experience and would be glad to extend any help I might- I've been there more than once in the love department, but finally found my miss right- and if nothing else I am a good listener. I'll fire up my YM and if you like- send me a message.
2006-06-11 03:01:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not gay, but I listen really well and have my own theories on love. I hope that you start to feel better even if you don't choose to talk to me.
2006-06-11 02:58:13 · answer #6 · answered by mizbehavingirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
~~i'm a good listener and i'm not here to judge you, but if you are looking for a friend, contact me and i'll be glad to chat with you.~~
2006-06-11 02:59:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey if u wanna talk id love to talk to you about it, my yahoo is everyonelovesanazngirl@yahoo.com
2006-06-11 02:58:34 · answer #8 · answered by wannabegirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm up. What's going on, Hon?
2006-06-11 03:00:11 · answer #9 · answered by mamabunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋