Us humans are not perfect, we mess up, clean up and move on. My question is, how easy do you forgive?
2006-06-10 19:20:44 · 11 answers · asked by claudia91701 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you understand that nobody is perfect, you will always have forgiveness in your heart for anybody who wrongs you along the way. However, whether it will be easy or difficult for you to forgive may depend on how deep is the hurting brought about by the wrongdoing. If you let love be the medicine for the healing of the pain you experienced, forgiving will be a lot easier. But if you let the pain drown the chance for forgiveness, time will be the factor in forgiving.
And remember, the test for sincere forgiveness is asking yourself if you are still hurt every time that you remember the hurting experience. If you still are, you have not forgiven truly because true forgiveness is remembering that painful past without feeling the pain it inflicted on you at the start. Only then can you say that you have forgiven sincerely.
2006-06-10 19:36:26 · answer #1 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Forgiving is the easy part, forgetting or at least dropping the issue is the hard part
2006-06-11 02:24:57 · answer #2 · answered by Sander 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a pretty forgiven person you would have to do something really bad for me not to forgive you,everyone screws up sometime or another.
2006-06-11 02:25:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know.
I forgive easily enough once I get over the hurt.
But how forgiven are gay children whose parents turn their backs on them? Where is the forgiveness in that?
2006-06-11 02:32:07 · answer #4 · answered by Snippet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I try to be quick to forgive, because I appreciate being forgiven quickly when I've been wrong.
2006-06-11 02:24:17 · answer #5 · answered by MattEMatt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to forgive before your not able to.
2006-06-11 02:23:42 · answer #6 · answered by skye15_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I forgive people mainly if they're sorry, and if they regret whatever they did. I barely ever hold grudges. But when I do... watch out.
2006-06-11 02:24:59 · answer #7 · answered by Casimir Alexander 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me the forgiving is easier than the forgetting..if its a serious matter
2006-06-11 02:28:42 · answer #8 · answered by Spud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God forgave me all my sins. I have no right to not forgive another.
2006-06-11 02:23:25 · answer #9 · answered by beckini 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to 4give is not easy...
yu need a big heart
sumtymez wesay to d other person dat we have 4given them bt deep down we kno.. we can never 4give them 4 wot they have done..
all we need is juz a bitta positive attitude towards lyf n everythin elz..
n abt me.. i 4give ppl... 4 woteva they have done 2 me..
made me cry... shout,feel lonely ,feel sick,,
bt i dun kno y..
i 4give them...
GOD bless
T.
2006-06-11 02:26:37 · answer #10 · answered by tanzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋