how can i change myself from simple to perfect?

Question

well i am very simple gal and i think i need a change. so i would like to change myself but dont know why. help...........

Answer 1

According to me, Simple is Perfect!

Answer 2

Passion, find it, find something you really adore and stick to it all the way through that is the way to change however, there is really nothing wrong with being a simple person believe it you really are better off without all of the other complications. If you really need a change just do something out of the ordinary find something you wouldn't usually see yourself doing...find a challenge find something that excites you, lights your fire, brings life back into...well...your life. Go on a road trip have a one night stand like I said just do something out of the ordinary. If you don't know why well...thats the beauty in it just do it. Do something! Skydive who knows live on the edge, live everyday like its your last (not to sound cliche or ne thing) if you have that freedom to do what you want take advantage of it while you can because it may pass you by. Heck I can wait to have that feeling of freedom to be able to do what ever the heck I want if you got it flaunt it seriously just like I said do something out of the ordinary make the change do something positive let yourself grow!!

Answer 3

The first thing that you need to change is the thought that you need to be perfect. There is NO perfect. Simple is great! There is nothing wrong with simple. You sound like you are trying to measure up to some unrealistic idea of what you think you need to be, to fit into the world around you. We are all unique and how boring it would be if we were all just alike.

Answer 4

Why do you need to change? Why do you wish to be complex. that is just a euphamism for I have lots of problems. You don't want to be complex you want to be the best you you can be. What are you gifts? What are your talents? Use thoes to further yourself. There is nothing wrong with being simple. If you want to change sometthing start with your self immage and being ok with who you really are because to some extent you cannot change that no matter how hard you try. Use and accent your strienghts and learn your weaknesses and how to defeat them.

Answer 5

first, analize how are u? do u think there s some,,mistakes or error parts, in your personality that really deserves to be changed?
are u neglecting any important aspect of ur life? studies, affective , social , intelectual developement, etc
for example, is your character too agressive or too weak??u are not neat ? is hard for u to take desicions? what is the aspect of ur personality or actions that u feel is not ok and u want to change
if u want to change to be like a popular girl in ur school or neighbourhood, that s not good, everyone has its personality and qualifications, ,,,but if u want to change to be abetter person, a better student a better daughter, that s good really
check this out:
-Is your room neat and ur things in order and clean?
-Is your hair and appeareance in general neat and nice?
-Are u studying and taking care of making a career for ur future?
-Are u eating healthy, exersicing and respecting urself or u taking alcohol drugs, drugs and sleeping with boys?
-Are u being dutyful and respecting ur parents and family?
sometimes we let the others take us to hell for the sake of the fashion and being popular, and we forget about morals and the meaning of a healthy life , dignity and self respect, and then when the years pass we repent of many things but is too late, just take a look and let s try to see the future, see yourself ,,,,,,like this, with a good universitary degree, healthy, married with nice children, enjoying life happy, isnt it nice?
now think again, what u want to change and what s the real reason, and thin k again, what u really need to change???

Answer 6

you need to figure out who you are first - and honey, you ain't perfect (no one is - there would be no fun in that) - and if you think your persona is flawed start with that fist. the inside reflects the outside so as you adjust your insides you're "simple" will transform into a more glamourous appeal. once you accomplished that, consider a new hair style, wardrobe, accessories and perhaps brighter and more vivacious looking make up. you probably feel the need to change because of guilt, shame, or ignorance just remeber tto reform not comform.

Answer 7

first of all, nobodys perfect, so the only person you are fooling is yourself trying to think that you could become perfect.

you probably want a change because your tired of whats happening in your life right now. maybe you dont really need to change yourself, maybe you only need to change the way you think.

there is only to do, or not to do. there is no inbetween. many people dont look at life like this, and many people are upset with themselves. i felt the same way when i was younger, and just couldent figure out why. it wasnt what i was wearing, or what i was doing at school, or even who i was hanging out with, it was my demeaner. it was the way i acted. it was who i was. i didnt see that until i was alot older. and you know what? alot of people would say "i dont know how to change who i am." but you know what? everybody knows how be different, but its often times to much to take on. it just depends on how much you want it. if you really want it, make a concious effort to be different, promise yourself you will start being who you want to be in life, but only do it for you.

look at your life. what about yourself are you not happy with? do you speak without thinking? do you feel like you could act more like an adult than you do? do you look at life more like a child would, or more like an adult would? what are the things you want in life? what would you need to start doing, or stop doing to get that way? its questions like this that open your eyes.

and its times like these that change your life. good luck!

Answer 8

Whatever you decide to change about yourself, change for the better not for the worse! Also change for you not for some guy that's trying to make you feel not beautiful the way u are!

Answer 9

first you have to decide what perfect is in your mind, then see how close you can become to that while sill managing to be yourself, just a better yourself. simple things can give you a pick me up as well, such as a new haircut or improving skin, loosing weight or tonning up that sort of thing

Answer 10

I know I am way at the bottom of this answer but I'm going to say : "READ" Read because it will always change your view of what's "Perfect" Read because if you know what's going on, you can be perfectly knowledgeble, READ, because what's perfect where you live isn't perfect in other areas, READ because the more enlightened you are, the more perfect your life will be, READ knowledge is power, READ and you will be "Simply Perfect!"