He is a family member and I love and respect him. Atleast before all this happened I did.
2006-06-10 18:46:32 · 10 answers · asked by sugar quills 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sorry, but when you say he's a family member, how's that supposed to work?
You don't have to be rude but you have to be firm. Don't send mixed signals.
I understand your concerns about respecting him. But again, in view of the connections (family, 3 times older), is it really justified to uphold the respect for him?
So draw a clear line. You can simply reject him based on the fact that you're not interested in him because of his personality and don't need to talk about age.
But, sorry, I'm still wondering and confused, family member? Are we in fact talking about something illegal here?
2006-06-10 18:52:46 · answer #1 · answered by SomeOneWhoKnowsBetter 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Uhm...
If he's both three times your age AND a family member, being rude to him is the bare minimum you should be doing.
You should call the police immediately and tell the rest of your family what he is trying to do. You should feel neither love or respect for a sexual predator, and that is what he is.
2006-06-11 02:38:58 · answer #2 · answered by Snippet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he family as in you guys are related by blood or what? Just tell him you feel like you're too young for him and he should look for someone closer to his age, or at least someone other than you.
2006-06-11 01:50:03 · answer #3 · answered by dogluver8906 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number 1: He is a family member. This is against the law. It is also considered incest.
Number 2: He is 3 times older than you. Old enough to be your grandfather. Is he your grandfather?
Number 3: And this is obvious. Just say, "NO"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-11 01:51:40 · answer #4 · answered by maxfactor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be cold and unemotional and distant.
If he gets pushy, fight like an animal.
Don't tell your parents unless you are dead solid certain they are on your side. If you suspect that they would accuse you of flirting and asking for it, don't tell them anything.
Are you dating anybody alot right now that can hang around constantly and keep everything cool?
2006-06-11 02:05:50 · answer #5 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's a family member it would be considered incest. Run
2006-06-11 01:51:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feel free to be rude - he's a predator
2006-06-11 01:51:31 · answer #7 · answered by ardent_psychonaut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont get involved dont be rude just tell him dimply im to young he'll understand cause you dont know if he's a raper
2006-06-11 01:52:23 · answer #8 · answered by m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
report him and tell someone who can take care of it.
Good Luck and God Bless!!
2006-06-11 01:51:13 · answer #9 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cont respecting him u cant help it
2006-06-11 01:48:59 · answer #10 · answered by sweetbuddy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋