I have had many chances to do this,but I was scared that I was going to grow to much or it would get around that I was having sex already. I think I'll wait unyil I'm 16. Plz tell me what I should do.
2006-06-10 18:23:15 · 12 answers · asked by Aaliyah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hey girl from what country are you? you know "sex" is sacred & it will only done by the 2 persons loves each other and done after wedding. yes i admit i commit premarital sex & i was 17 at that time, but i'm very sory for what i have done. "sex" is very important to a woman that you must only give/sorrender to the person whom you love, your husband to be. but now that "sex" is not sacred because everybody does, but if i wer you just wait the right time girl. your too young to commit "sex".
good luck girl... :-)
2006-06-10 18:31:09 · answer #1 · answered by lonely trix 3 · 24⤊ 4⤋
You're not ready. You're not ready to have sex until you are ready to make the comitment to raise a child for the rest of your life. Cause when it boils down to it, sex is the act of trying to concieve. I have a friend who is 24 and has an 8 year old baby. She loves her daughter more than anything, but her family turned its back on her, she couldn't finish school, she has no idea where her daughters dad is, and has to continually work to suport herself and her daughter. No partying, no playing, no fun thats higher rated than pg. I lost my virginity at 14 cause I thought I was ready, and I wasn't. I'd do anything to take that back. But once its done, its done. If you're not sure about it at all, don't do it. If he won't wait, he's not worth it. What I've learned from life is that guys only want one thing. They're also stupid.
2006-06-10 18:34:38 · answer #2 · answered by beweird22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart wait as long as u want u have all ur life I know it seems hard but hold on to it because after that u really have nothing to hold on to, your still young enjoy being 14 I wish I had waited trust me if you have any question email me at chunkydee1927@yahoo.com and I'll talk to u until then stay sweet.
2006-06-10 18:38:55 · answer #3 · answered by lurena r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really wanted to just get it over with...so I did it..but at a reasonable age...and soon after I wished I had waited to give myself to someone very deserving so in truth you should wait.
2006-06-10 18:31:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have YEARS ahead of you to have sex so why rush?
Believe me, i never heard anyone say they wished they started having sex at a younger age, but plenty of people say they wish they had waited!
2006-06-10 18:39:52 · answer #5 · answered by mamabunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your body is not fuly developed yet and if you get pregnant.
your lower body will become permanently damaged because of the stretching of the bones and skin which will leave you deformed.
2006-06-10 18:31:19 · answer #6 · answered by Arizona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait. Chances are, you'll regret it later on in life if you don't.
2006-06-10 18:26:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you wait, you just 14 focus on shool baby
2006-06-10 18:28:20 · answer #8 · answered by i will say Lean Wit it Rock Wi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no no no.. dont let them change what you want to do. u have every right to deny any dude u want...
so if you like him and are ready for it then do it.
2006-06-10 18:28:50 · answer #9 · answered by consused dude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I promise you will regret it if you don't wait.
2006-06-10 18:26:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋