my sis will be marriang a doc who is 9 years older than her, so she is scared about wavelenths and other thigs does it really make a diffrence, what type of adjustments she has to make..?
2006-06-10 18:17:07 · 13 answers · asked by ashokbaskaran 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
depends on your sister. she will probably be well taken care of and a lot of women would prefer that over any deep relationship. women do want "security" to feel comfortable in a relationship.
the guy has been in school for a whole 8 years longer than most people so he is probably emotionally 8 to 10 years younger anyway.
he gets a trophy wife and she gets the much sought after "security".
2006-06-10 18:19:00 · answer #1 · answered by thom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband is 10 years older than me. No it is not a problem. With only 9 years I don't think that she will have to make any adjustments different than any one else that gets married. Don't worry, if they love each other, they will be happy.
2006-06-10 18:25:15 · answer #2 · answered by Fishermans Wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their ages make little difference if she's willing to make some adjustments. He'll likely have to make some too to accommodate her "wavelengths," among other things. What makes the difference is first how much she loves him, and second how mature she is at this point. It sounds as if she has a ways to go to be mature enough to handle it all, but if she loves her doctor, she will gain that needed maturity.
2006-06-10 18:38:22 · answer #3 · answered by Nightwriter21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly believe it depends on the couple. My aunt and uncle are ten years apart and their marriage is wonderful. My dad just married someone who is nearly half his age.
It all depends on the feelings. But 9 years really isn't that bad with the big age differences in the world today.
2006-06-10 18:33:56 · answer #4 · answered by Brit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my ex were 8 years apart and that question came up alot. but thats got nothing to do with the dynamics of two individuals unless you want to. It can be used as nice excuse to add to the list of all the reasons we dont get along.age is just a number
2006-06-10 18:28:21 · answer #5 · answered by Mr.Obvious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My grandparents were married for 60 years before my granmother past away and she was 10 years younger than my grandfather. Love , laughter and patience is all that matters.
2006-06-10 18:24:11 · answer #6 · answered by Ammie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows? My mother and father were ten years apart and they spent most of their married life apart. However, I have known people who are extremely happy with their commitment. Just as any marriage, this cannot be predicted. Try it if love is strong.
2006-06-10 18:40:01 · answer #7 · answered by grannywinkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhm...i would have thought this is something that they would have already discussed seeing as they're getting married. But no 9 years difference should not make a difference as long as they're compatible, love and respect each other.
2006-06-10 18:20:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are truly in love no problem
but if she isnt really in love then they shouldnt marry
Good Luck and God Bless!!
2006-06-10 18:20:50 · answer #9 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not, love can't be stopped just because of age differences, just make sure they both are really in love
2006-06-10 18:21:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋