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My husband cheated once in the beginning of our marriage with a friend. I walked into her house and found them straight up in the middle of it. First thing I did was picked up his clothes and took them with me. When he finely made it home (2 days later) with all his oh baby I'm sorry, I was fu-ked up. Blah blah blah. I got him
messed up again took him to bed and once I had him at full attention I then SUPER GLUED that rock right to his stomach. I wonder what story he had to tell the Dr. Needless to say I also divorced the bastard. Because if they will do it once they will do it a million times. Good luck

2006-06-10 19:45:13 · answer #1 · answered by Kat 2 · 2 3

Get a new man and...your sister?...I don't know what to say but I cannot even picture any of my family member doing that. Poor cflor81. That's a tough situation you're in. When the trust is gone it is really hard to get it back. The man is changeable but your sister...that is a very serious betrayal. I don't know how close you two were/are but I believe that you need to stay away from her...at least for a while.

2006-06-10 18:20:25 · answer #2 · answered by Mana 5 · 0 0

its up to you. i would probably forgive them both (but i have been married for 14 years) and find out if my spouse still loves me or if this is a "new direction" that my spouse is taking in life.

i think it is totally possible to move on if the sibling and spouse are at least vowing to not do that again. i think vowing to not do that again would be enough to repair the relationship without a drastic change (living separate lives).

neither person thought of the consequences before they did it. i am attracted to several of my wife's sisters. i have thought it through........and, ummmm NO NOT A GOOD IDEA. sex with a stranger is a lot easier to get over (strangers don't show up at family functions several times a year).

i think you will have a lot to talk about if your spouse isn't looking to change his ways. this isn't always a deal breaker but it totally changes the dynamics of the husband & wife relationship (not for the better).

i wish you well and would be glad to speak to you again on this matter.

2006-06-10 18:33:42 · answer #3 · answered by thom 4 · 0 0

sounds like a lost cause. An explanation from them would shed some light on the problems that led to this. ( to prevent it from happening with your next mate)
The man I can understand (instinct, it seems) but there is more going on with your sister than I can say.

2006-06-10 18:25:33 · answer #4 · answered by gobld 3 · 0 0

I would have to ask God to give me the strength to forgive them both for what they did, but at the same time, I wouldn't be able to trust either one of them again. The forgiveness would be for me, so that it could help heal my heart and help me move on with my life, but the loss of that trust would be impossible to get back.

2006-06-10 19:21:35 · answer #5 · answered by SweetSatinDoll47 2 · 0 0

divorce the husband and beat the hell out of your sister

2006-06-10 18:21:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

this has happend to my mother in law, and not only did he cheat, he divorced her to marry her sister, it was really hard on the fam and especially the kids, but eventually they got threw it and now are civil to one another i know its hard, i know it hurts, but you should leave him, and try not to blab to everyone it just makes you look trashy odds are they already know or are going to find out anyways, let them hear it from the cheater and your sister instead.

2006-06-10 18:23:08 · answer #7 · answered by n4il_p0lish2000 5 · 0 0

hey.. keep ur sister away !!! and also find out u r husband is intrested in ur sister and make sure u cultivate that and show ur husband that he does not need to see any one thatn u !!

2006-06-10 18:26:46 · answer #8 · answered by ashokbaskaran 1 · 0 0

Put salt peter in his food.

Take all of his money.

Sell his car.

Burn all his clothes.

What are you going to do about your cheating sister, also?

2006-06-10 18:57:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

okay get rid of both really like the one girl said divorce both and enter in jerry springer it is fake but you can get some money for it.!!! to cover divorce fees

2006-06-10 18:21:55 · answer #10 · answered by loverbabyy24 2 · 0 0

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