An ex that is my best friend said that she still has feelings for me and there was a very good possibility that we could get back togeather. When I asked her out, she said no!
2006-06-10 15:56:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
When I asked her out again, I was choosing between her and another girl. They both like me and they both new my situation, and I choose my ex. I am with the other girl and don't know if I am happy yet because we have yet to go out on a date.
2006-06-10 16:13:41 · update #1
One thing about girls is most of them can't make up their mind when it comes to relationships. She may still want her freedom and doesn't want to be attached right now. She may have said that to you to let you know when she's ready, she really wants you to be the person she gets attached to. Like I said, it's very possible that she's just confused.
2006-06-10 16:00:47 · answer #1 · answered by GraceB 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It is very simple you see when she sd that she had feelings for you still and the possibility remained high to get back together she was indeed controlling the situation. She wanted to keep you waiting for her to give in to your pressure but all the while keeping you from dating or being with another girl while she dated freely knowing that she had you as a backup guy. please move on and leave her where she needs tobe in the past.
2006-06-10 17:08:23 · answer #2 · answered by psychologist is in 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She playing headgames with you. Get a girlfriend and see if she gets jealous then. Most women only want what they can't have if you appear too eager then they back off. Plus with exes you feel comfortable around them but realize its never gonna happen again realistically.
2006-06-10 16:00:46 · answer #3 · answered by ♥c0c0puffz♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That isnt a big deal really. She might think that you have a good chance, but its just too soon. Just because she said no doesnt mean that she doesnt want to. Just that she might not be able to at the time. I wouldnt worry too much about it.
2006-06-10 16:00:41 · answer #4 · answered by Man Coon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's playing head games....you deserve better:) Don't give her your time of day, she's just keeping you on the back burner in case nothing else works for her. Shame on her to abuse a good friendship.
2006-06-10 16:01:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's using you as a backup. A "Plan B" so to speak. She's keeping you around just in case she never finds someone taller, funnier, richer, etc.
Don't be a chump. Move on.
2006-06-10 16:01:14 · answer #6 · answered by stork5100 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may not be ready yet. She may just need space. But maybe she wants to date other guys but keep you "available" for whenever she may get ready to date you again.
2006-06-10 15:59:43 · answer #7 · answered by mzstorm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants to make sure that she will always have you on the 'back burner' for whenever (IF-ever) she is ready for you. Don't bother playing her games. Move on.
2006-06-10 15:59:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are just like that...Just ask her what she has in mind and what game she is playing at...If you are done playing games then tell her so.
2006-06-10 16:00:32 · answer #9 · answered by Mary M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is playing you like a fool, move on and find someone new!
2006-06-10 16:00:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋