2006-06-10 15:41:25 · 28 answers · asked by mryungbp 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
My child was born out of wedlock. We aren't your typical family, as one might think of. A mom,dad, siblings, etc. We are a family, a dedicated family. We are a strong close knit family, my child and I. We are doing well. I am doing well by my child and she is doing well by me. Love overcomes all.
2006-06-10 15:58:55 · answer #1 · answered by truthbetold 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, according to Welsh tradition, a child born out of wedlock is considered lucky. I personally don't see anything wrong with it,if you are a good parent to that child.And historically,marriage was a means of legally transferring property, like a brides dower, and making alliances.The concept is pretty much outdated.
2006-06-10 22:51:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it wrong to have a child without a father and a mother making a vow to keep and take care of the child? Marriage is a vow to work together until the end, through thick and thin. My God. I could not even imagine my life without my wife and children. Life would have no meaning, just my own self indulgences. You must be very young to say this. Even squirrels take care of there babies. God Bless
2006-06-10 22:49:16 · answer #3 · answered by soccergarysw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Children are supposed to be produced in marriage. If you have religion you would know this. If you are an athiest then it won't matter to you. Children should be made in a loving relationship with a mother and a father who are married. It's what God wants for his children. Not just a single-parent family.
2006-06-10 22:50:51 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How will the children understand the institution of family?
I know of a woman who had three children from three different men. Has anyone thought of the kids going to each other, "who's your daddy?" with the same mother?
It's nice to know that both of kids have their father AND mother in the same house.
2006-06-10 22:47:03 · answer #5 · answered by n9wff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is more your opinion. What you believe is WRONG is WRONG.. why care so much about what other people think? If you don't believe in the institution of marriage then why would you worry about if it is "wrong" to have children out of the "institution" that you don't believe in?
"Wrong" is in the eyes of the beholder. There will ALWAYS be SOMEONE who thinks something you do is WRONG!!!!
Screw em'.... ;)
2006-06-10 22:47:35 · answer #6 · answered by xxxcariooo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you are committed to both the children and the mother or the father, you plan on being there forever with the children and the mother or father, i think that this commitment is as strong as a marriage and it is ok to have children out of wedlock.....were adam and eve married?
2006-06-10 22:45:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it isn't wrong. Many children that are born to married couples are in worse shape than children of single and/or unmarried people. The key is to be a healthy parent and to nurture a healthy child, regardless of marital status.
2006-06-10 22:47:16 · answer #8 · answered by tdc64804 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't care what you believe. But children deserve and need a stable loving and caring environment to grow up in. If U are not able or willing to provide that. Don't make a female pregnant
2006-06-10 22:46:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you provide for your child and treat your significant other with respect there should be no problems. It's all about what you do and not the one act of signing a piece of paper, only to disregard it later. Just do right by them and forget about what anybody else says. Good luck and congrats on the baby!!
2006-06-10 22:47:38 · answer #10 · answered by njangerball 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋