I was marry for a few years and a so call friend cheat with my hushand. now she alway call ,e-mail ,and write letters to tell me that she sorry.
2006-06-10 15:08:30 · 24 answers · asked by mauricejr77 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You do not need people you cannot trust in your life. Seems to me you are too timid and timidity is fertile ground for these type of people to crap on you. So you need to quit being so timid. You are better than that, than them! They both don't have the love and respect it takes to be your spouse or your friend. MOVE ON LOVE... get an education, work , love yourself, build your self-esteem and realize that there are people out there worthy of someone like you. And they will get what they deserve also...he he he.. :o)
2006-06-10 15:44:18 · answer #1 · answered by IBsunny 2 · 11⤊ 1⤋
I went through the same situation. I finally just asked her how she could possibly consider herself a friend of mine when she obviously had no respect for me, my marriage or our friendship when she had an affair with my ex. I told her that while I could forgive her for her obvious weakness I could never forget the way that she had betrayed my trust and point blank told her not to contact me again. She did try on several occasions and I refused to take her calls, answer her letters and e-mails. She's since gotten the hint that I have no desires to be her friend.
2006-06-10 16:19:26 · answer #2 · answered by cgspitfire 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of friend would have sex with your husband? I would say that they are not a friend and next what kind of man is he! A true man would not have an affair on you if he loved you! You can either forgive or forget! If worst comes to worse - Trash can them both! They deserve one another! There are more men and friends out there! Good Luck!
2006-06-10 16:25:50 · answer #3 · answered by OuTsPoKeN23* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to stop calling and writing! Tell her you don't want to keep in touch with her. If she keeps trying to contact you, change your number. (And by hushand I guess you mean husband?)
2006-06-10 15:14:36 · answer #4 · answered by ♥*´`*ღPink♥*´`*•.¸¸ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it in your question! I don't like you anymore cause you cheated with my husband! You don't owe her anything and she is still trying to hurt you by constantly trying to contact you. Tell her you want nothing more to do with her, she is not your friend nor do you want her to be your friend. If she had been a friend in the first place, she would have never done what she did with your husband.
2006-06-10 15:31:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all - forgive her. It might be hard but it will make you feel better to let all those negative emotions go. Tell her you forgive her, but that after what she did you just can't be friends with her anymore. Be honest with her about your feelings and that you have to move on with your life and she needs to stop contacting you.
2006-06-10 15:11:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your friend that you have read/heard her apologizes but what she and your husband did hurt you and you are not ready to forgive and forget. she shouldnt have too much trouble figuring out why you are upset!! she may be sorry, but you have to tell her that its a little too late for that and she has to live with the consequences, and one of those is that you do not want to be friends with her right now. block her email, dont answer the phone, if thats what you want to do.
2006-06-10 16:14:40 · answer #7 · answered by Kez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you can not forgive someone that is a cheater you didn't forgive your husband...I hope...Do not forgive the friend and just plain stop answering her calls and letters. She is not worth the trouble that she will cause you...What is she doing waiting for you to remarry so she can steal that one too.
2006-06-10 15:42:27 · answer #8 · answered by Mary M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her "I'm sorry, but I don't want you in my life anymore. I understand that your sorry, but i just can't be your friend anymore. I'm not going to hold a grudge against you, but you just hurt me so bad. I don't see how it would be possible for me to be around you knowing that you did one of the worst things a friend could do to another. I'm sorry but I just don't need this in my life right now.'
2006-06-10 15:19:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't truly be friends with someone you can't trust... And what sort of friend would do that to you? Just be honest with her.. It might make you feel a lot better too. Go on, get some stuff off your chest! She deserves it.
2006-06-10 15:13:48 · answer #10 · answered by soulgirl76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋