Then after you talk to them for a While and get to know them you decdide to meet like each other and get along well , as soon as you have sex you never hear from them again .
2006-06-10 15:00:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
He was definately gay and I am sure he enjoyed the sex
2006-06-10 15:05:48 · update #1
funny your asking this question i just had guest over for dinner and we were talking about the same thing,,if gay men would stop letting this stuff happen guys would have on other choice but to treat each other better. why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free. so many gay men are lonely so they will do this stuff just to be with someone and get treated like garbage. all you have to do is just not give it up the minute you meet them. they will have no other choice but to chase you and work for the nana and maybe stick around abit.most guys want what they can't have
2006-06-10 20:09:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because sex was all they were after in the first place. Some people are just looking for sex and if they want it with you they will say anything to get it. Its one of the major down falls of being so trusting and putting yourself out there. Next time try to avoid having sex for as long as you can or maybe at least a month. If its you there are interested in they will stick around, if its sex they will be gone way before that. Good luck.
2006-06-10 22:32:13 · answer #2 · answered by Daniel C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well some ppl tell a good story to get a prize, some ppl reflect their own insecurities, and some ppl actually really do think they want a relationship but either find out they were wrong or realize that they want it with someone other than you. also dont have sex so quick into it, because the longer you dont either you discover the person give up which means they were not worth it, or they actually take time to get to know you the person, not you the penis.
2006-06-12 13:16:54 · answer #3 · answered by camrondew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rebecca M if it hurts so bad quit having him put it in your ***. This is a queer forum, now. More seriously though, the sexual predicament the asker-of-the-question poses is exemplary of the paradox called "gay love". Most role-play fetishes do not revolve around love but only sex. Now if U R straight, wel then U need not look for love in the local taverns, then.
2006-06-10 22:27:19 · answer #4 · answered by Timmy N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not just gay men its straight as well honey.....men will be men... gay or straight most of the young ones just want to hit and split.....what you need to do is stretch out the time before you have sex with them. That way you can get to know the person and see if you really do want to have a sexual realtionship with them
2006-06-10 22:05:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Straight men do that, too.
It's a man thing.
It's also possible they thought they wanted a relationship, but realized they didn't.
Some men convince themselves they want a relationship so that they don't feel guilty about having sex.
You could make them wait longer... the ones who just want sex won't wait for it for long... they are used to getting it when they want it and will go where they KNOW they can get it.
2006-06-10 22:15:42 · answer #6 · answered by Dustin Lochart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they don't know what they really want....male sexuality is very visual and they're always looking for the next good looking guy to come along...and there is always someone better looking....that's why.
Some of us gay guys are not into that scene however...we're just a little more difficult to find.
2006-06-10 23:25:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Straight men do this too - it's just an excuse to get in your pants. And to add insult to injury, the straight ones then accuse women of playing games. It's all about scoring.
2006-06-11 12:25:34 · answer #8 · answered by captlex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Straight men do the same thing. Don't get into a physical relationship so fast. It takes time to get to know a person before you get too involved sexually.
2006-06-10 22:03:35 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happens in straight relationships too. It goes for men and women They say anything to get immediate satisfaction, then on to the next conquest!
2006-06-10 22:08:25 · answer #10 · answered by LN has3 zjc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋