2006-06-10 14:58:15 · 12 answers · asked by sweet23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Did you talk about abortion before you married? If so and he didn't agree with it then the is going to change on you and you need to get away. But that should be your decision too. Do whatever you want to do because if you don't you will always regret it. If he loves you then it won't bother him to have a child with you. Good luck in your journey.
2006-06-10 15:05:02 · answer #1 · answered by catlins_playhouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about how you feel. Tell him you don't want to have an abortion - why would he want to abort his own child in the first place? Just be honest with him and ask him to be honest with you - listen to what he has to say. Regardless of what he says, you don't have to get an abortion because of him. I personally think abortion is wrong, and you should certainly keep your baby.
2006-06-10 15:04:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you decide to have an abortion because your husband wants you to.You will have to live with that decision for the rest of your life. Unless you are 100% sure you want to do it and not because someone else wants you to DON'T. If your husband does not support you in whatever you decide I think you should start to wonder if he really loves you
2006-06-10 15:18:17 · answer #3 · answered by j.macka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did he want you to do this are ya'll living with someone or on your own?That's your body you should have made that decision.Maybe he feels like he can barely take care of the both of you.You need to sit down and talk to him about this becuz you are married to him.And see what the problem is.You also need to get on some birth control so you don't haf to go through this again especially right now.I'm so sorry for you I really am.But you talk to him becuz you need to know exactly what's on his mind.I feel your hurt one woman to another.I'll pray for you and your husband.You take care of yourself.Remember the final decision is your and your only.
2006-06-10 15:10:48 · answer #4 · answered by dccuttie75 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should continue to love him anyway and seek counseling and help for you and your marriage. Tell him how you feel but do not have the abortion whatever you do. Since he got you pregnant he needs to wake up and take responsibility here!
2006-06-10 15:45:20 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having an abortion is like killing a human being and it is not permitted at all. God said to mulitpky and he should of think before he have sex with u.
No don't do it
2006-06-10 15:09:06 · answer #6 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. Why did he want you to have an abortion? Is there anyway that you could partially understand his feelings?
2006-06-10 15:58:44 · answer #7 · answered by mrsseifer736 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a horrible place to be my dear. I can't imagine how you can deal with that. The best thing I can suggest is that he is just scared, and that he will come around.eventually to understand that this miracle of life inside of you is the best thing that will ever happen to him.
He needs to know that he has really hurt you. I doubt that he gets it.
2006-06-10 15:29:32 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you and ur husband need to sit down and start talking to each other, this is something u guys will have to work out, good luck
2006-06-10 15:11:15 · answer #9 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray about the situation and follow your heart. Sorry to hear about you situation.
2006-06-10 15:03:44 · answer #10 · answered by adkfoaiefnafedw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋