I know i'm 16 and teens will think about sex offten but i haven't lost my virginty,and i'm proud of that and plane on keeping it for a while but it seems like the older i get the more i think about it and what it's like. PLEASE HELP I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO !!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-10 14:19:17 · 16 answers · asked by Sweet&Petite16 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
It is natural to think about sex but don't let it be on your mind all of the time. Good don't have sex until you are married that is agaist God's rules. If you have sex and not married you will be in big trouble with God. So wait and think about something else besides sex. Like hobbies you like to do or something. There is more to life then sex that is not all what you will be thinking about.
You should ask God to don't let you think about it so much. He will do it if you ask him.
Have a nice day and God bless you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-11 10:21:39 · answer #1 · answered by Faithhhh,[♥] 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
At your age, it is quite normal to think about sex a lot. I'm sure there are people around you, maybe even some of your friends, talking about their experiences. Of course you are going to feel left out of things because here you are still a virgin and cannot contribute to the conversation.
Please don't let that cloud your thinking. Try your best to continue to keep strong and keep your virginity for as long as you possibly can. When the time comes and you meet that special someone, it's going to be wonderful. In the mean time, continue to hold your head high and keep strong. There are not a lot of teenagers your age that can say that they are still a virgin. I am very proud of you. Keep up the good work.
2006-06-10 15:15:32 · answer #2 · answered by Christine Lam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry....you're probably still going through puberty, (even if you can't see it). It's totally natural for kids in their teens to create a sex desire. But deffinately keep up with your plan of not losing your virginity till your married. I know that lots of people now days just don't seem to care about that stuff, but it's a big plus for some of to actually put a bit of thought into it.
2006-06-10 14:35:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hormones. Nothing to be scared of. And I'm sure hearing your friends talk about it makes you even more curious. But sex is a serious thing. . . good for you for waiting. Finish school and decide what you want to do with your life first. You have so much time to not only have sex, but to actually enjoy it like an adult.
2006-06-10 14:25:40 · answer #4 · answered by Hot Pants 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many teens are thinking that sex is cool but, sex is not cool because then you have to thing about the consequence. A few examples such as getting pregnant, trans meted disease and a person who wants use your body for their own pleasure and nothing more. So be careful and be smart.
2006-06-10 15:30:39 · answer #5 · answered by Nickolie05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal. I am sure you hear about it every day. And your body is changing. You are growing and developing and have hormones that you never had before. It is very normal to be thinking about it.
I know I do not know you but I am proud of you for resisting temptation and loving and respecting your body enough to be a virgin and planning on keeping that way! Please keep up your attitude it is so important! Good for you!
2006-06-10 14:22:55 · answer #6 · answered by foolnomore2games 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 16, your hormones are just raging out of control. That is very normal. Especially, since you are a virgin, your curiosity is over-bearing. You made a good decision, though to hang on to your virginity for as long as you can. The longer you wait, the better it will be, trust me. Good luck.
2006-06-10 14:26:12 · answer #7 · answered by Jeanne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal that you think about sex as much as you do, specially if you are as curious as you described. If you don't want to loose your virginity then get educated and don't ask your friends cause all they'll do is try to induce you to have sex.
2006-06-10 14:25:24 · answer #8 · answered by Baby_latina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes is ok to think about it , i do the same when i was 16 keep your virginty up.
2006-06-10 14:28:14 · answer #9 · answered by sandraintexs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very normal what you're going through. If it gets to where you can't stand it anymore, just come over to my house and we can do what you crave. Although you say you want to keep your virginity. You will feel much better after you have sex.
2006-06-10 17:37:04 · answer #10 · answered by TommyBoy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋