I had just broke up with someone I dated for a long time. I went out with a bunch of people from work a week later. Some guys and some girls. I was feeling really down on myself and crying. This one guy from work, that had recently quit. He said he always thought I was gorgeous. And when he'd see me at work he thought I was so hot. He's engaged, but he did sometimes flirt at work. A couple of the girls said I was pretty and a stranger in the bathroom said oh she's so pretty. Do you think these people were just trying to make me feel better? Especially the one guy that used to work with me. Would a stranger just say this for the hell of it?
2006-06-10 13:56:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I dont see why a stranger would say it at all. Your an adult I assume? Adults don't generally walk around saying 'oh isnt she pretty' except in reference to babies and young children. Truth is, I think maybe its what you want to hear cause your feeling insecure over the breakup. Life goes on and you'll meet other guys.
2006-06-10 14:03:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take it from an alcoholic, when I am drunk, there are things I wouldn't even think about saying, then they come out and I am "a stupid drunk", so I don't really get firm and say bad things, I just act retarded and here it is 8:05pm, and I am drinking a little, but if I stay for a little longer, then you will see what I am saying, or I may get off the computer, so I won't do something stupid, then that part won't really matter.
2006-06-10 21:07:25 · answer #2 · answered by Nickname 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, a little full of yourself aren't you? Who cares if all these people think you are pretty or gorgeous! Are you a nice person? Did they say wow, she is such a nice girl, easy to talk to, fun to be with?? Those are the things I would be concerned with...not whether or not the world thinks you are pretty. Good grief.
Oh, and to answer your question, people say things all the time when they are drunk that they don't mean or would never say sober! MOVE ON!
2006-06-10 21:00:38 · answer #3 · answered by boredgal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt that many people were working together to cheer you up. I'm sure you're a decent looking girl. Move on with your life, but stay away from people already in relationships. Not a good place to start.
2006-06-10 21:00:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they wouldnt say for the `hell of it`.it means that they are still expecting something from u and u r not gone and out. u would nt care to look at anyone unless there is something u are interested in possessing from him/her.(tangible or intangible things).all of them may not be dangerous and take undue adavantage but be careful.a second spell of disappointment may leave u even more down.
2006-06-10 21:04:44 · answer #5 · answered by chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drunken people tend to blazingly tell the truth all the time they're under influence. Besides; if someone is crying, the last thing I'd call them is pretty, especially if it isn't true.
2006-06-10 21:00:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when someone is beautiful they are always going to get compliments, in Jamaica they have this saying that 1 v_gina kill penis_ (meaning if you have sx with 1 person continuously soon your will no longer be able to perform which is of course a lie) so in other words he could just be saying this to get into your pants so be careful,
2006-06-10 21:08:50 · answer #7 · answered by Quality_boy18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people that are drunk usually say what they wouldn't normally say sober, it seem as if u have self esteem problem. just take the complements & move on
2006-06-10 21:05:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're pretty. Get over it. Go find you a new sexy man that's not engaged.
2006-06-10 21:00:45 · answer #9 · answered by Beautiful Insanity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually people that have been drinking will be more apt to say what is on their mind.
2006-06-10 21:00:03 · answer #10 · answered by merlin_steele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋