to b using a vibe behind my hubbys back or should i kiss and tel?
2006-06-10 12:54:38 · 10 answers · asked by NATALIE S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Let him know. He would probably be more than happy to join in:)
2006-06-10 13:18:52 · answer #1 · answered by fungirl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would advise that you confront the issue and let your husband know that are using a vibe, Alot of guys can feel intimidated by the fact that their girlfriend is hidding that she uses a vibe also if you let your husband in on the fact that you enjoy other kinds of "sexual" play he may want to join in and it may boost your sex life... Some guys enjoy using vibes on their woman just to bring them pleasure it is no dirty little secret that Women often require a little more play then just sex to get off! So I'd tell him and let him join in when you do tell him make sure you inform him you arn't doing it because he is lacking in the area or he may take a bad turn on the subject and feel intimidated and like he failed in some aspect... Hope this helps!
2006-06-10 20:04:21 · answer #2 · answered by The Cheshire Cat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could tell him or just bring it out on your next play time + tell him what makes you happy that will put an end to your own play time and keep you from possibly wondering off. Not saying that you will do it but its better to be safe than sorry.
2006-06-10 20:05:25 · answer #3 · answered by florie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not wrong at all. He probably satisfies himself all the time without telling you. It might excite him to hear it. But I wouldn't just bring it up. Maybe if you are talking about sex already, and it leads to that. But, no, don't worry, just enjoy yourself! (literally)
2006-06-10 20:03:28 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not wrong but don't tell unless you think he is comfortable enough in his "manhood" not to feel like he doesn't do it for you. Men can be so easily hurt when it comes to this.
2006-06-10 20:05:31 · answer #5 · answered by Dellajoy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on the reason you use the vibrator. Is it because he is no good in bed or because he can't do it as often as you like? If it is because he can't do it for you, it is going to hurt him really bad when you tell him.
2006-06-10 20:05:09 · answer #6 · answered by » mickdotcom « 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not wrong but be honest and tell, before he finds out.
2006-06-10 20:00:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He would probably like it, I would tell.
2006-06-10 20:00:26 · answer #8 · answered by n0love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OF COURSE NOT IT IS NATURAL BUT IT IS SOMETHING YOU JUST KEEP TO YOURSELF IT IS NOT LIKE YOU ARE CHEATING ON HIM WITH ANOTHER MAN
2006-06-10 20:01:20 · answer #9 · answered by 0samaria s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most men love that so tell him
2006-06-10 20:09:04 · answer #10 · answered by JAYNE C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋