My babys dad and I have been together on and off for over 3 years now. Everytime we make plans to move further in our relationship, such as getting a house and getting married, etc., something always happens to keep that from happening....
2006-06-10 12:53:37 · 9 answers · asked by ap_baby9685 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think that alot of relationships have their trials and erros you sound like you've reached a hard patch in your relationships, sometimes that does happen it seems like you get alot of bad and not alot of good. In the long run it's you who decides if it is worth keeping or not a relationship is never an easy task it takes alot of effort to stay in for the good and the bad.. It is a choice that your heart makes if you love him and are in love with him can see yourself with him for life with standing hell and high water then it is pretty much clear that ya'll belong together to go further... A relationship can be a trying thing, you want someone who is going to stand with you through fire and brim stone and you stand with em through the same... Hope this helped
2006-06-10 12:58:25 · answer #1 · answered by The Cheshire Cat 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to decided if its worth keeping, do your pros and cons, and ask yourself where would you be without him, a head or behind. If you think lifes better without then move on, but if you think everything will work out and that hes the one youre supposed to live life with, then put more effort in to it and try to accomplish the things you want done.
2006-06-10 20:13:06 · answer #2 · answered by thatcutesexygyrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him - and ask him to be honest with you. It's not fair for you to be waiting around for him to be the husband and the father that you and your child need. Tell him if he's not going to step up to the plate or if "things" are going to keep preventing him from marrying you then he needs to be honest so you can move on.
You deserve a man who loves you and your child enough to commit to you and be there for you.
2006-06-10 19:57:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about your child and your relationship and when you say something always happened consider if he made it happen becuz he doesnt wanna get married to you and was the baby a mistake or did you wanna have one with him?Becuz of the baby he is probably thinking you wont leave him yet becuz you rnt married or anything its really easy for him to dump you if he loses intrest or finds som1 else
2006-06-10 19:59:31 · answer #4 · answered by Nightchild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well does he love you as much as you love him? Just as long he is taking care of yours and the baby needs. love doesn't pay the bills.
2006-06-10 20:02:19 · answer #5 · answered by tannya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your instincts. If he's commitment phobic, it may be time for you and baby to move on.
2006-06-10 19:56:56 · answer #6 · answered by lynda_is 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to go with your gut feeling. And consider what's best for your child.
Good luck.
2006-06-10 19:55:59 · answer #7 · answered by thinkofasong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU CAN TELL IF YOUR RELATINOSHIP IS WORTH KEEPING BECAUSE OF GOING THROUGH THE BAD TIMES AND STILL BE ABLE TO STAY TOGETHER.
2006-06-10 19:58:12 · answer #8 · answered by 0samaria s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.....you just.....know!
2006-06-10 19:56:19 · answer #9 · answered by Camaro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋