been together 2 1/2 years, we're 22, and if im gunna take it to the next level, i need to know whats so good about me. I see other guys, that have qualities better than mine. Im good looking, but why do girls stay with 1 guy
2006-06-10 12:50:37 · 17 answers · asked by yep 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Because he's funny, not constantly pressuring her, ready to wait it out and take it at HER pace, patient, willing to accept that she has things on her schedule as well as him, sweet, romantic, intelligent, and doesn't get boring. If you find a guy that doesn't get boring or too predictable, e-mail me.
Anyways, guys who don't get overly jealous, though just A LITTLE is kinda cute, guys who show they care, guys who are perceptive, etc.
2006-06-10 12:54:23 · answer #1 · answered by Flirty Uncommitted 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
precious52801 is right it is because some girls don't believe in cheating.
There are other reasons as well. No one on this site can tell you why your girlfriend hasn't cheated on you or why she loves you only she can answer that question. So if you are feeling insecure ask her, ask her why she loves you, ask her why she stays, ask her. One thing I can tell you is that your question might shock her.
I can tell you however, why I stay with my boyfriend, to do this I have to start from the beginning.
He got under my skin at first which made me want to find out what made him tick.The more I learnt about him the more I wanted to learn and before I knew it I was in deeper than either planned or expected. The person I came to know was warm, child-loving, forward-thinking, passionate and spontaneous. In other words he was my total opposite (well almost). More than anything else once the relationship began he maintained his individuality and allowed me to maintain mine without interference, that is he hasn't tried to change me.
Everything I have said before explains why and how if fell in love with my boyfriend. The fact that each of these "things' exist is a reason why I stay. Having a relationship in which communication exists both ways and where I don't have to ask if I am loved but know just by his actions is another reaso why I stay. A relationship in which a commitment exists has evolved over time I honour my commitments.
I guess simply put I found someone who I am comfortable with but never get used to and am in a relationship that I enjoy. That is why I stay.
I hope this epistle answers your question.
ps. 21 and 22 (going 23) * almost 2 yrs
2006-06-10 20:39:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we like to believe that that one guy loves us in return. That he's good for us and that we can do something for someone important. I can't vouch for all women, but I like to think that's why I stick with one guy if the relationship is goin' good.
Have you asked her if she likes those other guys who have 'better qualities' than you? Did she say, 'oh, ya know, I love you, but that guy is so much better at that.' I highly doubt it. Get your tail out between your legs and step up to the plate! She's with you because she thinks YOUR qualities are the best. okay?
2006-06-10 20:08:52 · answer #3 · answered by Yukina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they love, respect, and cherish their guy enough to stay with just them. And because they don't believe in cheating. She must see something great about you to stay with you all this time. Why not ask her why she stays with you and doesn't get someone better than you (with, as you say, better qualities, than you). Only she can really tell you why.
2006-06-10 19:57:19 · answer #4 · answered by honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If we girls looked at other guys when were with our boyfriend or lover what would he think....that we were H... or B.... and were were not satisfied with what we have. Come on now.
Grab a piece of paper and write down what your offering your girlfriend. Moral support, unconditional love, being able to support her if she is not able to work (and if she does work you still pay the bills), your kind and respect her, your straight forward with her, ..... I could go on, and on, but you got the point.
THERE IS NOT THAT MANY MEN OUT THERE THAT WOULD DO ALL OF THAT! And if they are out there they are all ready married!
2006-06-10 19:56:59 · answer #5 · answered by florie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls should find the person that they do think is :THE ONE:. i am not saying this is true for you, but in some situations, girls do like other guys other than theirs. but theyre not nessecarily cheating on you physically. sometimes they stay with one guy because they dont want to hurt them. ive had the exact experiance. maybe theres something she sees in you that she doesnt see in any other guy. dont worry about her with someone else. just let her know you love her with all your heart. when the time comes that she doesnt think what is going on is true enough..she'll most likely tell you but dont worry at all.
2006-06-10 19:58:12 · answer #6 · answered by sam_star700 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women stay with a guy the same reason a guy stays with a woman - they love eachother and want to be together. She obviously loves you, and when you are in love with someone they are the most attractive person to you - you just don't want anyone else.
2006-06-10 19:55:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she loves you cause you are you and she trusts you and loves you for you.. other guys may have better qualities but that's not what she is looking for she choose you cause you give her what she needs and she has found the qualities she wants and needs in you and nobody else
2006-06-10 20:45:18 · answer #8 · answered by Vicky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because of love. Yeah sometimes I would say If I married a millionare I would be happy. But if I wasn't truely in love with that millionare then my life would be awful.
2006-06-10 19:54:38 · answer #9 · answered by tannya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it's in our nature. Most women just want to be with only one man. Men, well, aren't the same in that perspective. You shouldn't question it, she loves you for YOU. Thats hard to find. Hopefully you love her the same way ...
2006-06-10 20:03:34 · answer #10 · answered by n0love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋