He is immature, hides alcohol, sleeps in the car, constantly tired, always "going for walks". I love him but this is too much.
2006-06-10 12:47:53 · 24 answers · asked by rollinonvzdubs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Originally I was going to tell you to act like a moron and show him what he looks like but it seems a more serious problem than just acting like a moron. Sounds as if he has some more serious problems that need some help so lot of luck and prayers
2006-06-10 13:00:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well...try imitating him...act like a moron yourself. But if he is a true moron he probably would enjoy the company! It sounds as if he is trying to get away from something...maybe himself. The alcohol..sleeping in the car...long walks. He has to be contemplating thing in his head. If he is a good natured person..loving and all that. Let him have some space, but if he is bad tempered.....and you feel something is not right about him.
Which you must feel....cause of this question. I would wonder why the long walks? Where is he going? Always use your intuition...when in doubt....check out...investigate..that is.
Good luck!
2006-06-10 13:00:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to direct your questions to him, voice your conserns and let him know that you've reached your rope's end and that if he really cares for you that he would not heed this warning to lightly and do something to make you happy. Let him know that you are not pleased by his actions do not just voice your objection here he is not a mind reader if you do not confront him with your disapovel to him he may think you accept it or just ignore it or are blind to it. Sometimes people can have a child like mantility, "If I hide it they don't notice" let him know you do notice and you disapprove and both of you as a commited couple have to come to terms of agreement to make your relationship work comunication is always a two way street.
2006-06-10 12:53:05 · answer #3 · answered by The Cheshire Cat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him. Ask him what its all about. Is he going through a mid life crisis? Where does he go for a walk to?....I dont want to plant a seed but could he be having an affair?....trust your gut on that one and don't mention it unless you believe its possible because it could make things worse. Or maybe just try joining him for a while and see how he likes it.
2006-06-10 12:51:43 · answer #4 · answered by vmmc_64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and have a talk with him. Be honest with him and tell him that he's not in college and/or that he isn't a kid any more - he's a married man. Let him know how you feel and how his actions affect you. If he still keeps it up tell him you want to go to counseling. Sometimes people need to hear from someone other than their spouse that their actions aren't "ok".
2006-06-10 12:50:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he has a serious alcoholism problem. I would talk to him about going to counseling, try and get him to attend an AA meeting, etc. If he doesn't respond and his behavior doesn't change, I'd suggest that you consider leaving him.
2006-06-10 12:49:13 · answer #6 · answered by Chelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you've already tried talking to him, now is the time to really get serious. either he starts acting like an adult or he may find this marriage in jeopardy, if it dosen't stop. Just how much are you gonna put up with ???
2006-06-10 12:53:04 · answer #7 · answered by quiet times 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the same thing to him for a week or two. Where is he always going on those walks of his. You need to check that out because it sounds fishy to me.
2006-06-10 12:50:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is so obvious that he is an alcoholic that I hesitate to tell you to have him go it AA because you probably already have. Go to Alonon and get help with living with an alcoholic and see if they can help him get into treatment.
2006-06-10 13:15:36 · answer #9 · answered by » mickdotcom « 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him to stop or else. Was he a moron before you married him. Remind him what made you fall in love with him.
2006-06-10 12:51:50 · answer #10 · answered by tannya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋