we've broken up and made up a lot of times.how will i know if he still is the same person whom i used to know? how will i react if he seems too insensitive about me?
2006-06-10 12:18:57 · 11 answers · asked by ceejay 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
dont over react
talk to him and find the cause.
move ahead with another guy.
peace
2006-06-16 21:48:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my fiance havebeen going through alot also. I recently had surgery and he said he would come and see me, but he never made it. I know he only has off the one day aweek and he is trying to take care of legal matters on his day off, but I felt sad and hurt. I never told him and I pretended it didn't matter, but it does. So many things start to go through my mind and i have found myself feeling bitter towards him. He is usually a very sensitive , sweet guy so I'm not used to feeling like i'm being put on a back burner. Maybe i'm being immature. I just feel like things are different. I really want him and I to talk and I think you and your guy should do the same. Nothing is gained if feelings are hidden because we fear what the other may think. Honest communication is best.
2006-06-10 20:25:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
You are probably right. You thought he was someone else. When we get into a relationship with someone new. We pretend to be the person that the person we are with will like the most. But when we are comfortable with the person, we change our personality again. People can get mad at that. Or sometimes they change too much for their own good and can't change into the person they were before.
2006-06-10 19:38:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well perhaps the best thing for you to do is just move one. You guys had your time together and it doesn't seem to work out. You should just go out and meet other people and just enjoy yourself- who knows you may meet some great people.
2006-06-10 19:45:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes not & your not that's why your having the trouble.
if you were both the same as you met... whats different?
you know the real him now & he knows the real you & its not what the both of you thought each other would be like
either learn to compromise or find someone that likes you for you
i mean the real you
hope this helps
ss
2006-06-17 03:39:37 · answer #5 · answered by Starscream 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you just have to try if you really want to. You will know after the first few weeks. But if he was abusive, dont' go back. Not until he gets therapy.
2006-06-10 19:23:11 · answer #6 · answered by amissybell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if ur guys r breaking up and making up its never gonna end it always gonna keep goin on i know casuse my sis been wit her man for 7 years off and on and they just got used to it so they keep doin what there doing going in cercles its really unhealthy to do that so my advice is to leave him but its up 2 u
2006-06-10 19:26:36 · answer #7 · answered by baby_4th_unknown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too insensitive towards you....move on and give up on that guy...lifes too short
2006-06-10 19:21:33 · answer #8 · answered by WyattEarp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say but it sounds like he's cheating on you and using you. If you don't like how he's changed, he won't change back so forget him.
2006-06-10 19:21:51 · answer #9 · answered by Adriana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone you are more compatible with. Life is no fun fighting with your boyfriend.
2006-06-17 12:19:40 · answer #10 · answered by bebeshanibabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋