2006-06-10 12:04:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Absolutely NO ONE deserves to be abused, no matter what the abuser says. Get out ASAP before things get much worse. Go to a shelter. Go to your parents, if you can. Go to a friends place, if you can. Go to your church, if you go to one. If there are kids involved, take them to the shelter with you because without you there, he could abuse them in your place and blame them for you leaving. There are always ways to get out, with or without money. There is NO excuse good enough to stay in a relationship where there is abuse. I know. I have been in that situation.
2006-06-10 12:46:20 · answer #1 · answered by honey 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no reason whatsoever for a woman to deserve to be abused. Gain some self respect. Go home to your parents if you have to but get away from the abuser.
2006-06-10 19:08:16 · answer #2 · answered by blueyedfaerydoll 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the hell are you talking about you deserve it? do you have no self worth? No offense but if you stay with him and he keeps beating you, then you do deserve it! If you truly have no money and no where to go, there are surely some shelters in your area, and they are free and always open. They even have job placement programs. And if you have kids and are worried about that then think about this way, do you want your little girl to grow up thinking it's okay to be treated like that? or your little boy to abuse his wife or family?
2006-06-10 19:12:33 · answer #3 · answered by heybitches 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, no one ever deserves to be abused!!! EVER!!! You need to leave him! Do you have parents to help you? What about friends? Check your area, see if there are women shelters. Go to a local church and talk to someone there. They usually have programs that help in these situations. What ever you do...Leave him!! Good luck to you
2006-06-10 19:21:16 · answer #4 · answered by fungirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey let me tell you this you never DESERVE to be abused by any means... you have got to get out of there even if you have to go to a shelter for a little while and you may even be able to talk to some friends and see if they will help you... cuz trust me if you dont it does get worse i know
2006-06-10 19:10:06 · answer #5 · answered by hazeleyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ARE you thinking???? No one deserves to be abused. If you need to leave, find the nearest women's shelter if you have no family. Good luck. Hope there are no kids involved........
2006-06-10 19:08:48 · answer #6 · answered by ladyren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of safe havens to go to. Don't use that as your excuse not to get out of your situation. And ask yourself why you would tell yourself such lies as 'you deserved to be abused' You must be at your lowest to feel that way. Get help now! There is someone waiting to help you.
2006-06-10 19:11:10 · answer #7 · answered by vmmc_64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter what you did no woman deserves to be hit....search for abused women shelters in area...
2006-06-10 19:14:03 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah Beth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your truly want help you can look in the phone book or go to your local Police or DA's office for a temporary protective order and they will also have information on homes that you can go to until you get on your feet - even if you have children. But you truly need to want help.
2006-06-10 19:47:02 · answer #9 · answered by florie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you say you deserve it did you cheat if you did get the guy you cheated with to loan you the money to get out.
2006-06-10 19:30:45 · answer #10 · answered by hank 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋