2006-06-10 11:42:51 · 11 answers · asked by Kimberly C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well you either know you do or not. Are you married or just in a committed relationship? Although it really doesn't matter which one it is if you are having feelings for another man it does mean you don't truely love the one you are with, so set this one free so he will be happy and find a woman who can fully love him.
2006-06-10 11:46:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
Kimberly, you need to decide if you want to be married.
AFTER you do and IF the answer is yes, you need to sever all ties with the man you have developed feelings for.
NEXT, you need to try to reconnect with your husband and pour all the friendship you were giving to your non-marital relationship back into him. Maybe do something new the two of you have not done before. Go on a road trip somewhere. If you can afford it, go on a vacation to a romantic beach.
NEXT, you need to know that developing feelings for another man is natural if you hang out and do the things you used to when you were single and looking and flirting and dating. We are all constantly barraged with invitations and threats to our marriages in those environments. How do people survive them? They make there spouse first priority and they don't get too close to people of the opposite sex.
I know a lot of people say, 'Friends are friends and I can still do all the stuff I used to when I was single. We are in this liberal age where it doesn't matter if they are a boy or a girl.'
Well, I'm here to tell you, SOMETIMES it matters. So whether this is a new information for you or not, being married means not putting yourself in situations where you can develop romantic feelings for other people and you might have to give up clubbing or going to bars with the girls or any activities where you meet this guy or whatever it takes.
THAT’S if you want to save your marriage and be happy
NOW knowing that, decide again, if you want to be married (marriage means sacrifice for the good things you get) and then do the things I mentioned above to the best of your ability. Good luck.
2006-06-10 19:16:21 · answer #2 · answered by jimanywhere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you have some sort of feeling for anyone you meet. Whether you feel insecure walking by a hobo, hate for your boss or the love you feel for your family some sort of feeling is always there.
The only answer to your question is yes. I think "What do you feel for him?" is the question you should be asking yourself.
2006-06-10 18:51:47 · answer #3 · answered by evilmrbeaver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from me, having feelings for a man isn't that bad. Gay is the new cool. Look at em for God's sake. So feminine yet so manly , YOW! Makes me pant.
2006-06-10 18:47:58 · answer #4 · answered by danielspectrum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Need some history of what situation you are in before any answer can be given.
2006-06-10 18:45:28 · answer #5 · answered by hockey_kisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your married,get over it and focus on why you want to stray from your husband.If your in a commited relationship,I suggest you let him go.
2006-06-10 18:49:29 · answer #6 · answered by Diva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and???..if you are married with kids and you dont think it will work out then divorce him if you think its worth it and if you do have kids then i would stay and not leave him for the kids just try to work it out
2006-06-10 18:46:50 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats nice, but not for ur man
2006-06-10 19:26:14 · answer #8 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you willing to throw your life away for him. when you act on your feelings, you can't turn back thwe clock.
2006-06-10 18:47:23 · answer #9 · answered by Ms Berry Picker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
soo...whats ure point...
do u want advice or is it just a comment...
DETAILS here woman
2006-06-10 18:45:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋