I am very very much turned on and aroused by my guy, but it just takes FOREVER for me to climax and he's very VERY patient with me on this; but I am becoming frustrated with myself. He says we'll work through it, but he has to finger me to make it happen; and even THAT takes forever but it's well worth it once I finally do. Can somebody, anybody help me?
2006-06-10 11:13:46 · 7 answers · asked by sexy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have the same problem. If I know it is going to take forever I use a vibrator and that speeds it up for me. I would suggest masturbating. That way you know what you like and you can direct your guy better. Good luck and have fun! :)
2006-06-10 17:44:20 · answer #1 · answered by Charissa D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It might be that you have doubts. You think, "he failed to please me before, can he make it this time?"
Just concentrate and believe you will be satisfied. Also try to offer him your level best. You'll be amazed that it'll work out eventually.
Don't blame him for this. There is definitely nothing wrong with him. It happens to most women most of the time. You need so much patience just like him. Love him anyway, just as much as he should love you.
Also bear in mind that naturally women do not always climax 60% of the time.
2006-06-10 18:40:52 · answer #2 · answered by Tom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right, don't think about how long it takes and how your bf might feel he cannot make you climax.
I would suggest that you tell him to pet you with his hand for a few minutes before he goes to the main thing. Don't hurry with this.
And have you tried oral sex??? He might do it instead of fingering you or do both things at the same time. Experiment!!!
2006-06-10 18:33:19 · answer #3 · answered by Nick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before my current boyfriend no guy had ever been able to make me climax with regular sex, only oral sex but he was very determined to be the first and succeeded by trying new positions I had never done before.
2006-06-10 20:16:57 · answer #4 · answered by Lydia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im no specialist....scratch that. i think you just need to enjoy and relax,dont think too much about climax or it will never happen. just relax and enjoy it.....
2006-06-10 18:24:02 · answer #5 · answered by The Prince of Laos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Add more fore play. Don't hop right to it.
2006-06-10 18:30:17 · answer #6 · answered by MoonDoggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use a VIBRATOR! Guaranteed to blow your mind!
2006-06-10 19:06:56 · answer #7 · answered by doctor_johnnie_jointroller 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋