Why is it that when you reach a age that everone loks at you like you're to old and they back away..and then they say..we can be friends
2006-06-10 10:59:01 · 13 answers · asked by Butch 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How old are you, Butch? Age is only a state of mind. You just need to find a woman who has common interests.
2006-06-23 06:13:31 · answer #1 · answered by berkeleygirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My grandmother, bless her, had boyfriends up til the age of 88 when she died. She always put on her lipstick, wore her best dresses and went to dances at the senior citizens community center. She also lived in her own apartment and cooked and cleaned herself. She raised 6 kids and 3 grandchildren and 5 greatgrandchildren in the same place. It's all in the mind, luv, all in the mind. If you have the right attitude, you can find the right person who will dig you and want to hang with you.
If however, you are 88 and looking for only 20 year olds, forgit it. Be realistic but have fun too.
2006-06-23 00:49:58 · answer #2 · answered by Persephone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Old is a state of mind. I know 20-somethings who are already "old" and know 80-somethings who have such a love of life that they'll never be old. I hiked with an 85-year-old man who out-hiked 30-somethings (including some intense rock scrambling).
But you're talking about love and dating: many men and women date outside their age range--there's no such thing as "everyone" feels the same way. Maybe you're hanging with the wrong group of people: those who feel age determines who you are as a person.
Are you upbeat, enthusiastic and have a positive outlook on life? Be yourself, love yourself: these are two of the keys to the Fountain of Youth. Don't hang with negative people who bring you down: they are toxic to you emotionally, and that ages you faster than wrinkles!
2006-06-10 20:28:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello ,
Just back away and let them go if they feel this way and find someone that will love you for you or maybe is closer to your age that you may have more in common with. Hope this helps!
2006-06-10 21:44:20 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU'RE ONLY AS OLD AS YOU FEEL BUDDY. I THINK NO MATTER HOW OLD YOU ARE, YOU SHOULD NEVER LOOK YOUR AGE, IN TODAYS WORLD THERE'S ABSOLUTELY NO REASON FOR IT! NONE. SO TAKE BETTER CARE OF YOURSELF PHYSICALLY, EMOTIONALLY, EAT RIGHT, SHAPE UP AND GO OUT THERE TIGER AND FIND YOURSELF A WOMAN!
ANOTHER THING MAYBE YOU'RE LOOKING FOR A WOMAN WHO IS TOO YOUNG FOR YOU. NOT ALL YOUNGER WOMEN LIKE OLDER MEN. MAYBE YOU NEED TO FIND A WOMAN CLOSER TO YOUR AGE.
GOOD LUCK TO YOU, TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF AND NEVER GIVE UP ON FINDING SOMEONE TO GROW OLD WITH YOU. NEVER STOP TRYING TO BE YOUNG. THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH NOT GROWING OLD GRACEFULLY. I REFUSE TO GROW OLD GRACEFULLY. I PLAN ON COLORING MY HAIR WHEN IT'S TIME AND WELL YOU GET THE POINT. MAYBE YOU'RE HANGING OUT WITH THE WRONG CROWD TOO.
2006-06-23 01:13:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age mostly matters to the younger people.
If age becomes a problem in your life, then it is time to move from those people that makes it an issue.
It will be time to move along to greater things and people.
2006-06-10 18:31:50 · answer #6 · answered by awaxa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only as old as you feel. Maybe you should really take care of yourself - diet, exercise, skincare, etc. so that people can see that you value yourself. If they don't want anything to do with you then just tell 'em all to go fvck themselves!!!
2006-06-23 15:14:03 · answer #7 · answered by Samba Queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats because u need to be with people ur own age, then they wont say things like that
2006-06-10 19:03:32 · answer #8 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only as old as you feel.
2006-06-10 20:20:51 · answer #9 · answered by Patricia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you probubly are to old if you have to ask what seems to old.
2006-06-22 05:10:40 · answer #10 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋