2006-06-10 10:42:03 · 21 answers · asked by MS.SUGA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Follow your own heart. But listen to your instincts. Mine are always right and I still ignore them a lot. Its gotten me in a lot of trouble. If this is the right person for you, and you let her slip through your fingers because of your family, you'll be sorry for the rest of your life. Don't let someone else tell you what to feel and who you should love. How can they know anyway. FOLLOW YOUR OWN HEART, NEVER SETTLE FOR ANYONE, DON'T LET PEOPLE, ANYONE, TELL YOU WHAT TO FEEL OR BELIEVE.
2006-06-10 10:53:43 · answer #1 · answered by debbie_joan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt have to choose, your family should be there for you no matter what, even if they dont like your girlfriend or any other decisions you make in life. Your family shouldnt get in the way of what you want in life and well neither should your gf but having both your family and your gf is best.
2006-06-10 18:13:21 · answer #2 · answered by Ray Ray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't believe that you should have to choose between your girlfriend and your family. your family is supposed to understand that you are in love. your family is being selfish. they don't want you to love. it may be a factor in your girlfriend that your family may not like. when she comes in the house,she may not speak or she just may be unlikeable. either way if you're in love with your girlfriend, family should always be there for you no matter what the case may be. continue to do what you are doing now. and if your family still doesn't want to be there for you then you may have to say bye to them b/c they aren't there for you anyway. in any case choose the one that is there for you when need be. then you're family will recognize their mistakes and be by your side.
2006-06-10 18:03:39 · answer #3 · answered by supergirl331117 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you have to choose? both choices could lead to bad things. for example: your family could put too much stress on you, and your girlfriend could break up with you! the best thing to do is try to balance it out. if you absolutely HAVE to choose, just do what you think would be best, but consider both options very carefully!
2006-06-10 18:10:00 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your family is your family for life. Why do you have to choose? No one says you have to decide between one or the other. People dont always please each other. But you can pick who you want to be with. They cant live your life for you. She might leave you one day and you just might need your family. Just because they dont always aprove doesnt mean they dont love you. I say keep them both.
2006-06-10 17:56:08 · answer #5 · answered by Brenda L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your family isn't there for you, is it even a choice? It is always good to have family on your side, but if they aren't, go with the one who is there for you. Good for you that your girlfriend loves you enough to be there for you...
2006-06-10 17:47:03 · answer #6 · answered by Thickness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girlfriend. Use the force Luke.
2006-06-10 18:16:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend,if she's the best thing that ever happened to you don't let her go!!
2006-06-10 18:00:09 · answer #8 · answered by Dawn A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend! You don't wanna be around someone who doesn't care If your gf is there for you, you should be there for her!
2006-06-10 18:00:01 · answer #9 · answered by jesslovesblink 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
deffinately ur gurl...my husband choose me over his family b/c i was more than a gurlfriend but a mother and a bestfriend...and i love him for that
2006-06-10 17:59:54 · answer #10 · answered by jayda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋