2006-06-10 09:50:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I had a friend like that all throughout high school. Guess what? We're not friends anymore and WOW am I happy! Dump your friend, maybe then she'll get a clue.
2006-06-10 09:53:30 · answer #1 · answered by MrsD83 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well honey, this girl doesn't sound like someone I'd call a best friend. I am 28 and have some dear best friends. They would never treat me this way. You need to distance yourself from unhealthy people like that. I really think you need to find a new best friend. I am sure you're very close to her and love her but sometimes you have to seperate the good ones from the bad ones. It's part of life. It takes time figuring out who your true friends are. Doesn't sound like she is. You don't deserve to be treated that way, ESPECIALLY from your "best" friend!! Good luck to you, I am sorry you're having to deal with this. Everything will work out!
2006-06-10 16:55:49 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Brooke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This person is insecure. If you value the relationship, then don't take the comments and the actions seriously. If the Cons outweigh the Pros, then move on. Life is too short to have negativity when it is unnecessary.
2006-06-10 16:54:06 · answer #3 · answered by Aurora Lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you consider such a person your best friend? You should exercise better judgment in choosing friends in the future, unless you are glutton for emotional punishment.
2006-06-10 16:55:45 · answer #4 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is weird. she is trying to make you feel weak. to monopolize you. hopefully she isn't also manipulating you!
tell her openly that you don't like it.
if she doesn't react, and doesn't change her approaches, withdraw yourself a bit from this relationship. wait and see what happens. how much of a friend is she?
2006-06-10 17:13:29 · answer #5 · answered by Hibernating Ladybird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who needs them. Forget about them. You'll probably make a better friend in no time.
2006-06-10 17:03:23 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend is not someone who is always trying to make you feel bad about yourself....who you described is someone who envies you
2006-06-10 16:55:38 · answer #7 · answered by bblm1887 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a new friend. With friends like that who needs enemies?
2006-06-10 16:52:14 · answer #8 · answered by Vidra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd distance myself from her and eventually just stop hanging out with her alltogether.
2006-06-10 17:04:55 · answer #9 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come to the realization this is not the way a friend treats another.
2006-06-10 16:53:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋