my boyfriend told me that if he had sex with some one who pussy was better than mine he would leave me for that person but he also said he is not looking to hae a sexual relationship with any one but me because he is in love with me but other behaviors say otherwise he trys to get his family to hook him up with other girls,chatlines, girls he meets on the streets. some of the girls i have actually talked to have told me that he said that he was not in a relationship and he wants to take them out and possibly make them his girl. i feel like i am on borrowed time like all he has to do is bump into the right female and really like her then our relationship is over that is a horrible feeling the feeling of uncerntainty i cant deal with this. he also has wandering eyes when we are together he also has a fetish for spanish girls a strong fetish!!!
2006-06-10 09:47:08 · 18 answers · asked by yousexythangyou 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
what a creep you need to dump him and find someone who would appreciate you the way you deserve to be
2006-06-10 09:50:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump his @@@.
he is treating you like one step above jerking off, but one step below paying a prostitute.
He isnt in a relationship to you, you are a F@@@-Friend to him, until something better comes along.
I dont know why i am answering this, you already know what you should do or you wouldnt be asking.
I think you are just looking for validation that it is the right thing to do. Well, girl, you have it. I AM A GUY by the way, and if 2 friends want to have sex, then fine, but if one wants a relationship and the other just wants sex.. that is NOT fine. You dont even need to dump him, just tell him to buzz off, you are not his blow up doll.
At least, the next time he wants to 'stay over' tell him to give you $500 before he takes his socks off. If he is treating you like a prostitute, you may as well charge him.
Better yet, just kick his @@@ to the curb. There are alot of good men.. highlight the word MEN who will respect you and treat you as a person and partner, not just a toy to play with until a better toy comes along.
2006-06-10 17:24:44 · answer #2 · answered by Gary B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him right now, why stay in a relationship you feel is borrowed time. If you stay in this relationship this would be like putting yourself down. A man looking at others girls isnt such a big deal, I have a boyfriend and I take the time to still look over the male. But if your man isnt only just looking but going after other girls. Then he doesnt want to be with you.
Again Dump Him!
2006-06-10 16:58:01 · answer #3 · answered by AriessGoddess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, dont wait till he dumps you , he is already disrespectful with that wondering eye,and the other stuff that people are tell you, have some respect for yourself and dump him he sounds like he isnt good enough for you anyway there are other guys out there that wouldnt treat you like that get out of that relationship hes gonna end up hurting you anyway, he has already started. i hope the best for you be strong girl
2006-06-10 17:02:17 · answer #4 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your are worth better than this. why r you putting yourself through this garbage. get some self esteem and respect.... if you dont start realizing you deserve better you r heading for a painful life. there is someone out there that will appreciate a good person like your self. move on and let this idiot have his spanish girls.
2006-06-10 16:50:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you ought to dump him he sounds like a REAL jurk. If he really loved you he wouldn't want to look at another girl. You would be the only girl he would want to look at. You deserve better.
2006-06-10 16:54:04 · answer #6 · answered by ssandysouth@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From after reading this Honey if you feel that way I think that you need to tell him to stop him in his track or leave his *** alone. To me it sounds like he is disrespecting you already HELLLL NNNNOOOO LLEAVVVEE HHIIIMMMM
2006-06-10 16:52:09 · answer #7 · answered by msmelissahernandez28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is just keeping you around till he finds a new one, your available when no one else is around,,,I would be worried about a possible sexual transfered desease if he is screwing around behind your back,,,,,,,,need to dump him and move on
2006-06-10 17:33:58 · answer #8 · answered by kkahn9dodge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend sounds like a dick head to me if i were you i wouold leave him and go for someone who would love and respect me and wouldnt talk about having sex with other girlz!
2006-06-10 16:52:58 · answer #9 · answered by becky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop him if he says are those romantic things without feeling. Then drop him like toxic waste
2006-06-10 16:51:08 · answer #10 · answered by babysmarts4ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋