Just about everyone in my town is so stuck up and self absorbed!!! I try to be nice and polite to EVERYONE but when they talk to me all they want to do is sit around and talk about the great sex they had over the weekend or what drugs they're on or their boyfriends!!!!!!!! It’s so annoying!!! I don't do drugs I don't have sex and I don't date (not at the moment anyways, all the guy's are prevs or already r dating) I guess what I’m asking is how on earth can I make some new friends who want to have an intelligent conversation and don't live on the other side of the state!!! I want new friends!!!!
2006-06-10 09:45:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Thanks guys, I recently moved schools for academic reasons and academically it's working out but... u know. My friends at my old school have moved on and I know that i need to let them, but it's still hard. My one true friend lives all the way on the other side of the state unfortunately so we can only see each other about every 2 or 3 years (it's a big state) This is really helping guys, thanks!!!!!
2006-06-10 10:01:13 · update #1
You are obviously far advance for your years and them, stay on your course and don't waver. true FRIENDSHIP is hard to FIND and scarce on any point on the COMPASS. Hold to your BELIEFS, and pursue your EDUCATION it will be YOUR BEST FRIEND in the END !!!
2006-06-10 09:54:17 · answer #1 · answered by skycloud 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same. Well, maybe we could be online friends. I enjoy normal intelligent conversation. Other than that friends will find you in life. (Just like I have made an attempt.) If they do not fit your needs then why waste time. Get out more if you can.
2006-06-10 16:52:56 · answer #2 · answered by EPGboy_Gary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being nice and polite is manipulating, you have different feelings than that, we all know that now by your question. you are being fake to be around your fake friends. you don't like them but you still hang with them. fix yourself and shake off the fake persona and you will attrack the friends you think you deserve. why don't you attract people that want to have intelligent conversation? maybe it's because they view you as a shallow person because of your friends and don't want to come around you. I know , it sounds easy to change the whole way you deal with people but it isn't and when you get lonely trying to shake your fake friends, you drift right back into their group. you gotta be tougher than that. it takes some bad times to change. but stick to your guns and don't let them pull you back in. they will sense you pulling away and try to pull you back in, it may be shame they use or bully you. don't let them win. if you let them win, you will always be the way you are right now.
2006-06-10 16:57:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang around places where other people who share your values might hang out. A library, church, maybe look into social groups. I share your values too, and believe me, it is hard to find people nowadays who are not into drugs, partying, or lewd nakedness.
2006-06-10 16:48:32 · answer #4 · answered by autoshowplantation 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm in your place right now, my hometown sucks big time, but i do have true friends (scattered now out of town).... don't be afraid to go out, there's a better world out there where you can be your true self, and visit your family anytime you want... i'm willing to leave this hell hole anytime
2006-06-10 16:51:01 · answer #5 · answered by ma_isa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really do need to go and meet new people. those people arent right for you and the best way to meet new people is to get involved with activities, etc...
2006-06-10 16:47:58 · answer #6 · answered by sball124 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-06-10 16:59:13 · answer #7 · answered by Samantha P 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can mail me any time for yr any problem.. see u always get disappoinment, when u expect much from anyone...
2006-06-10 16:51:19 · answer #8 · answered by dr.vishesh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
travel.
staying there isn't helping you broaden your own life.
2006-06-10 16:48:47 · answer #9 · answered by leadbelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ill be your friend!!!where do u live? well i.m. me. oh_my_god_becky62. my name ia april.
2006-06-10 16:49:16 · answer #10 · answered by becky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋