both of us are married and comitted to our families. the relation that gathers us is mind to mind,heart to heart,we enjoy talking to each other,we feel the pain of each other,we share our thoughts,but we are both hardly avoiding comitting a sin.i started to think of breaking this relation altough it means a lot for me.what do you advise?
2006-06-10 09:38:34 · 11 answers · asked by sadflower 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you are both now struggling which mean you have developed some form of romantic feelings between each other. then it would be wise to just break up now, unless you are ready to commit adultery.
Its painful, but just try stoping seeing each other for a while. You both need to maintain your dignity.
2006-06-10 09:54:06 · answer #1 · answered by Murphy 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Hmm.If it's nothing more than a friendship and it doesn't seem like anything deeper, then it's nothing bad in such a relation. But if you both feel there's something more, it will be better to keep a distance from each other. Well, you are both married. If you can keep the situation in a healthy way it's not bad. But it must stay as a friendship.
2006-06-10 09:46:58 · answer #2 · answered by aleksandra_butka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's as easy or difficult as you make it - also, remember that the more you let a problem get out of the house, the more you let it get out of hands! friends are friends, but getting carried away by those emotions is wrong. the best thing for you to do is cut off from them for a while and concentrate your energies at home. try befriending your partner with as much effort you made towards the new person. you'll feel a lot better.
2006-06-10 09:45:44 · answer #3 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue with the friendship,but avoid the sinful part.You should never be in a secluded place just the two of you,that will be the beginning.
2006-06-10 20:41:38 · answer #4 · answered by Bob Mukonka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if this relationship is just a friendship thing and your completly sure that you have no stronger feelings for that person then i don't see why you should end it. if my girlfriend had someone who she feltshe could talk to and share her problems without interfering with our relationship then i would have no problem with it but be careful because everyone is different and your partner might not look at it thesame way i would
2006-06-10 10:17:35 · answer #5 · answered by podge_celt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer is be carefull what you decide.its easy for people to judge and say ,you must end it and i think it is for the best if you do,
my words of caution are if you end it and stay with your respective families is that either of you do not then have regrets and that your families suffer because of that resentment.
think long and hard
good luck
mike
2006-06-10 09:57:01 · answer #6 · answered by listener06y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just recently had that same relationship....you just have to quit. It is still hard for me to not just email him and say I want another chance, but I knw we will never truely able to be together. If you want to email me we can tlk about the specifics. Best wishes
2006-06-10 09:42:57 · answer #7 · answered by colorist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should've NEVER gone there in the first place. Use the time and energy you spent on this other person and devote it to your own family. There are no excuses.
2006-06-10 09:42:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can break it off and just be freinds. There is nothing wrong with that
2006-06-10 10:09:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry don't understand-- is it a person that u want rid of?
2006-06-10 09:41:41 · answer #10 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋