Family Members..They gossip, lie, talk behind everyone's back I tried putting up with them because they are family. Now I am done with them. They only want to see the worst in everybody. I am a grown woman.
2006-06-10 09:33:31 · 21 answers · asked by Patty 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
been there, done that.
some time apart was the best thing that could have happened.
for me it was about 15 years
2006-06-10 09:35:24 · answer #1 · answered by leadbelly 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I have. A select few of them. They're the same way, and every time we gather around on Holidays we end up talking about money or gossip. I haven't talked to a few people in my family since 2003.
2006-06-10 16:37:15 · answer #2 · answered by Psychology 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same here, I haven't talk to them in 10 years.
if you took time to think about it and are determined then, fine.
But you must understand that family and background are the backbone of your own personality, and you will eventually miss some of them at times. Rely on your friends and keep an open heart if they are trying to get in touch with you, it might resolve some undisclosed issues. Then, you'll be able to build your own family.
Good luck to you and God bless.
2006-06-10 16:40:44 · answer #3 · answered by Tommy Covent Garden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't yet, but I'm on the track headed that way. I come from a slightly dysfunctional family. I plan on moving far away from here one day, and I won't have very much to do with my family anymore. Not that they'll care.
2006-06-10 16:40:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, I have as well. Some just caused wayy too much stress and drama in my life. I was sick of getting used as well. They would always want me to help them but when it came down to helping me they were all busy.
2006-06-10 16:38:08 · answer #5 · answered by Heather E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They have pills you can take that will cure that. If you don't have health insurance to defray the costs you can petition the US government for emergency help. Provided you live in the US.
2006-06-10 16:38:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you're right, you don't need them if they just hurts you. you need to get your own life and find your own happiness. sometimes we need to be selfish, but in a good way. we should fight for our well-being and if the family is trying to make you feel miserable about your life, you have to leave them behind.
2006-06-10 16:42:49 · answer #7 · answered by imola_angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i have stopped having anything to do with them except for one because your family will screw you over faster than anyone
2006-06-10 16:37:45 · answer #8 · answered by crazi8red 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOOK i think every family has some of those kind. LOOK i have some over here ill share some with you. FURTHER MORE with mine i changed my TELEPHONE NUMBER. AM I GOOD OR WHAT????????
2006-06-10 16:36:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OH MY GOD. YES YES YES. I finally got sick of all of them when they refused to do anything about my brother molesting my neices. I now shun them all.
( by the way, you do not happen to be my sister do you?)
2006-06-10 16:36:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋