I have been trying for 2+ years to make it work. It has been long and tiring. He now says that he is ready to try. But then he says that he had great sex with his ex so it was something that I did 2 years ago that turned him off, but he cant remember what it is.
2006-06-10 09:33:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I wish it were as easy to do as easy as it is to say just leave his A** but it isn't easy. If you have kids then you have to think about them to. You should know if your not happy neither is your kids. It's hard but you'll know what to do it's your life and that is a big decision
2006-06-10 09:54:06 · answer #1 · answered by J J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow 2+ years... You must be wonder woman or something. I'm guessing you guys don't have any kids which is easier to lose him. There is no excuse for him cheating. Even though most men cheat, it's their thing. To let you know about it, is not respecting you at all. You totally deserve better.
2006-06-10 16:44:27 · answer #2 · answered by QQ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to divorce him and get out so do it!!! You dont need this pain and unfaithfulness anymore. Separate and leave now file for divorce and go on with your life. You also will need help and counseling to get past this as well.. Hope this helps some !
2006-06-10 22:04:55 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His cheating and lies should be enough to turn you off from wanting to keep this man around.
2006-06-10 17:12:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave right now. Why stay in a marriage that is unhappy? Plus you haven't had sex in two years. Please girl, I would have left after the week without sex. Good Luck, you'll need it!
2006-06-10 16:46:15 · answer #5 · answered by sparkling_apple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mentally you are out of the picture. Someone else has replaced you. Sorry for the cold fact but you have to deal with it.
2006-06-10 16:38:54 · answer #6 · answered by alpha & omega 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on from him......comparing your sex life to him and his ex. I would kick him to the curb so quick it would make his head spin. Move on....without him!
2006-06-10 16:50:23 · answer #7 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to move on.
2006-06-10 16:59:53 · answer #8 · answered by jackmack65 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you guys should spice up the marriage, invite a chic in the bedroom, i am sure he would like that.
2006-06-10 20:37:40 · answer #9 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already know the answer.. why r you letting this pitiful man.. blame you ... why two years.. that is enough... move on... who cares what he remembers.. he is not worth it
2006-06-10 16:43:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋