I'm a 17 yr. old virgin Female and I know that the first time can be very painful. Some women don't like having sex (my sister) Some women love it (my best friend, who is also pushing me into trying it) some women say that it doesn't really effect them (my mother) I just don't know : (
2006-06-10 09:29:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Sweetie, please wait. Don't let your friend or anyone else pressure you into having sex. Especially just to "do it." The most precious gift you have for your future husband is you virginity. It's something not to be given to just any man; not to be given lightly or casually. Sex is a special bond between a husband and wife. I know you see scenes of casual sex, one-night-stands, people living together outside of marriage, but that doesn't make any of it right. Think about what is right and best for you. Pray to God about what you should do. He will guide you in this as in everything else in your life.
Does it hurt? A bit perhaps, but only for a moment. And if you are with your husband, the man who is going to love you for the rest of your life, he will be tender and gentle with you, taking his time to ensure that you are OK. God bless!
2006-06-10 09:45:26 · answer #1 · answered by celticwoman777 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
do it with the man you love and trust 100% -- and not to just "lose it". it is scary if you were to give it to some jerk who will break your heart, but it won't be scary if you love the man. and just because you're 17, doesn't mean "it's time" -- there is no right time or right age (well... not too young of course) -- the right person matters.
the longer you wait for the person, the better it will be. especially if you have matured already. when you're older, you're more experienced (with life) so you have better judgment.
2006-06-10 09:38:22 · answer #2 · answered by PC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be scared of sex and do it once your ready but don't do it at 17 i didn't have sex for the first time until i was 21
2006-06-10 11:08:17 · answer #3 · answered by supermodel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God never had meant sex to be scared of he made it to be enjoyed between married couples but today in society sex is use not for what God intended it for but for all different reasons. We now have to be scared of it because of all the sexual transmitted diseases cause by unprotected sex.
2006-06-10 09:43:07 · answer #4 · answered by sexy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious you're not ready to have sex. Trust me, you'll know. When you're ready you wouldnt be scared at all, especially if it's with someone very special.
2006-06-10 09:35:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm boy, I think its normal to scaring of sex for first time, but if we do it wrong (wrong person, wrong place, wrong time) it causes to that we have scaring of sex for all the life with no good memory of sex, but sex is so holy for me and i want to do it with my lover. it should be romantic specially in first time, as i said I'm boy and I'm so curious to do it and i know waiting for that in this age is hard, but be patient. and about painful word, i heard from my girl friend about her sisters painful sex relationship with her husband, and in order to my girl friend was scaring of sex like you, but in period of time i would so patient and kindly with her and now she trusts me and so interested to nearing me. we had no sex but i believe she is ready and this is important to me. time and love helped us know each other much and this helped to don't scare of sex.
2006-06-13 04:52:04 · answer #6 · answered by FreshBoy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will know when the time is right for you, dont let anyone pressure you into it, just make sure it is with the right person and it will be wonderful, take your time you have your whole life ahead of you
2006-06-12 09:32:06 · answer #7 · answered by just curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please judge for yourself. Of course, consult your mother and other dependable elders.
2006-06-10 09:35:34 · answer #8 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO
2006-06-10 09:32:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋