Every time I'm around gay men I feel very uncomfortable and want to leave where ever I may be.I try to respect others always.But I just don't like being near them is that wrong.I feel secure in my sexuality and everything but I get angry if I catch a gay looking at me in that way.
2006-06-10 09:20:10 · 22 answers · asked by El Mexicano 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
no thats call homesexual inferior syndrome, no cure for, just have live with it all ur life, suck it up and take it like a man
2006-06-10 09:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your a guy i think a lot of men feel this way...i am a lesbian and I have found that men are very accepting of women being gay than a man..they think its wrong...is it because you think they are going to pick up on you or even worse talk to you and others would percieve you as gay? I think all the badgering and sterotyping of gays and lebians have put a damper on people..they are people just like you and should be treated that way...I dont think you should treat some one differently because of who they choose to sleep with and if one does happen to look at you ..hey be flattered because you know you got it going on!! as for you having homophobia...i think its just a society thing instilled in you
2006-06-10 10:27:30 · answer #2 · answered by stormyheart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No such thing as homophobia. If you feel uncomfortable, it's because you have a conscience and recognize that homosexuality goes against Nature and is a perversion. Don't feel guilty about knowing the Truth. Too many ppl trying to be politically correct, so noone wants to call it what it is! Good Luck in being yourself.
2006-06-10 09:26:44 · answer #3 · answered by Kitten 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not just you. I'm gay and don't feel comfortable around gay men. They are always checking out for game and I am not into that sleaze thing. If they were more real about their behavior, many of us who never go to gay bars and restaurnts etc, just might roll in once in a while for a civilzed evening on the town. The gay 'hood' is just up the street 4 blocks and I have not been there in 7 years because the guys who are always there have a anti-social negative behavior and they suck up sleaze . I don't do sleaE. mAKES ME FEEL SICK. hAVE GOOD FRINDS OF ALL KINDS.
2006-06-10 09:27:54 · answer #4 · answered by tonyintoronto@rogers.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Homos are everywhere. Your dentist and the gas station guy and maybe your uncle Juan. Its OK not to want to be gawked at like you are a piece of meat but you are thinking that all gay guys are like that. Most of us you cant even tell. There must be a reason you feel so threatened and I think you should find it and deal with that instead of trying to cover your butt when you walk. They cant take anything you wont give them so you have nothing to worry about.
2006-06-11 02:38:59 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When i was in the closet i felt the same way it could mean that you see something in them that reminds you of yourself that your not comfortable with. On the other hand it could just be something so alien to you it makes u uncomfortable. I think the fact you feel guilty about it means your not a bad person and I guess there's nothing iherently wrong with not being comfortable you just might want to examine why u feel uncomfortable.
2006-06-10 09:31:16 · answer #6 · answered by sooziebeaker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can you claim you are secure in your sexuality yet you are offended being look at by other gay men? your emotional reaction contradict what you think you believe. anger stems from fear, fear of the unknown, fear that somehow someone might make a pass at you, fear that you might be perceive gay if someone see that. fear that you might even turn gay and like it. Fear create all these irrational thinking and imaginations. Fear that stem from your lack of confidence as you have no control over your sexuality. Your anger is an indication of your sexual insecurity!! I've known straight men who display no such negative reaction. In fact , quite complimented that they attract both sexes.......does not mean they want to sleep with guys.
2006-06-10 12:32:24 · answer #7 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yes, you have sort of a phobia. Ask yourself what makes you uncomfortable... is it that you're affraid they're going to force themselves on you? It's no more common in the gay community for that to happen than in the staight community. Being attracted to the same sex doesnt mean you need to jump everyone of that sex, just like being attracted to the opposite sex doesnt meant that either.
2006-06-10 09:24:21 · answer #8 · answered by impossble_dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt all gay guys are checking you out. Get over yourself.
If you feel uncomfortable around gay people, it is definitely a problem with you and not them.
2006-06-10 09:32:55 · answer #9 · answered by huhwhat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I see that you are writing a few questions on "gay" topics. Perhaps you feel uncomfortable because your actually curious about gay sex. Alot of people who are "homophobic" act that way so no one will suspect that they actually are attracted to their own sex. FYI
2006-06-10 09:26:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you at all. There's no social rule that says you should feel comfortable around anyone at all. That being said, why still try to hang around them.
2006-06-10 09:24:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋