I was talking to my bf the other day and I asked ihim if he would ever cheat on me and he said if he was not happy then yes he would go find it somewhere else? What does that mean do you think maybe he might already be cheating on me? I hope some one can help me with my anwser
2006-06-10 09:18:22 · 15 answers · asked by Crystal&Dustin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well are you keeping him happy? If your not he might be thinking about it. so go and make him happy. I lost my exfiance because of this so I know what i am saying. Ask him what he wants to do to make him happy. And if you can do it the do it. Don't be stubborn. I was stubborn but I learned my lesson for my next relationship.
2006-06-10 09:22:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well truthfully most people will leave if they are unhappy. The way he is putting though is sort of callous. He makes it sound like if he's unhappy he will just cheat. What should be done is if you're unhappy you talk about it and try to resolve it. If it can't be resolved then you break up - not stay together and cheat.
It also sounds like a manipulative way to get you to be how he wants you to be. It's sort of like a threat to make you try harder to keep him happy. It's a very immature thing to do actually. You may want to dump him now.
2006-06-10 16:37:52 · answer #2 · answered by DiRTy D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, what makes a man happy? Is it good sex? To be honest you can be giving a man sex in all different positions and giving him royal treatment, nothing can stop him if he wants tpo cheat.
Just dont worry about the cheating. Two things in life are sure cheating and death.
If a man cant accept you for who you are its not worth it, for better or worst remember. Thats like a threat
2006-06-10 16:25:20 · answer #3 · answered by isashell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOOK that was not a good answer. YOU do need a long talk with him. BUT there are other fishes in the sea too. REMIND HIM OF THAT as well. JUST LIKE MY Bf said no one would want me. HA HA HA i found many bf. MY ex never found any one else. LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL
2006-06-10 16:24:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off...he wouldnt have said that if he really cared about u...bc that **** hurts people. If u think he is cheating...since he did say that...he most likely is already cheating. I dont think yall should stay together any longer bc he obviously doesnt care about ur feelings.
Good luck!
2006-06-10 16:23:43 · answer #5 · answered by fairy_freedom84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont understand why unmarried people dont just separate if they are not happy... why cheat... for goodness sakes.. you r just boy and girl friends. he already gave u the answer.. so whether he cheats now or later.. what is the difference... find some one else...who is looking for one person to love.
2006-06-10 16:22:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him right now. He may not be cheating, but he's said that he thinks it's okay to do so. Leave him before you get hurt.
2006-06-10 16:21:30 · answer #7 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk what to tell u maybe u should sit down and have a long tlak be like what can i do to make u happy and will u plz tell me the truth are you cheating on me and if u luv him be like i luv u n i will do w/e it takes to make this relationship work and hopefully u feel the same way
2006-06-10 16:20:53 · answer #8 · answered by $_$aRiEl$_$ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is in it for the sex. If he is unhappy, he should talk about it with you, not go looking for the first two bit whore he can get it from.
2006-06-10 16:21:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The relationship is not worth it, end it while you can unhurt, a man that does not see you as special and sacred is not worth your lifetime.
2006-06-10 16:21:17 · answer #10 · answered by zaki1968 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋