I still have a crush on my ex-bf. He broke up w/ me last yr. on April Fools. We went out for 3 months. This year, on that day, he told me he was "engaged". I didn't believe him. Then, a few days later, I was asking how they were. He said, "I don't like her." I knew he was lying about the engagement thing. Then, he told me likes another girl. When he told me he was engaged, I just became so jealious. Now, he likes to do things with me, like, tickle me, wrestle with me, and just likes to hang out. We've been good friends for ten years. The thing is, I've been trying to find the courage to ask him out, but I don't want to lose a good friendship. Plus, he told me he likes another girl, but idk if he's kidding or not. But he acts like he likes me. My friends think he's flirting, but i'm not sure what to think. Should I give up on him or should I try another relationship with him? Please be honest.
2006-06-10 09:10:52 · 15 answers · asked by Ska Baby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well maybe this "other girl" he likes is you. Some men give complicated signals like that. And I honestly think your friendship is over since you like him in romance way. So you have nothing to lose. You can not live all your life wondering what would happen if you have asked. So I think you should stand for what you want and ask him out. If he wants you too then it is alright but if he does not I still think your friendship will not be over. Cause you were dating before too and after break up you are still friends. I think everything will be fine just ask him. Good luck.
2006-06-10 09:16:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've been friends for 10 years and you didn't know if he was/wasn't engaged? Obviously your friendship isn't a strong and honest one. He doesn't sound like someone I would want to date. Guys like that are great for a good time, a hop in the sack, and that's it. Not relationship material. Decide what you want from him. If it's a relationship, I say let it go and find someone worthy of your affections.
2006-06-10 09:20:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guy, I will tell you that he is trying to flirt with you, but at the same time the way he teases you about the other girls is shwing you that he is trying to hurt you at the same time. I think that you should just stop seeing him altogether, and make a new friend, and find a real b/f. He knows that you like him also, and he is trying to manipulate you and to wear down your sense of self dignity and self respect. Don't fall for this, he is not really concerned about how you really feel as much as what he wants from you ultimately.
2006-06-10 09:16:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLAY the same games back. TEll him you have a boy friend. TEll him your getting engaged if the other bf ask you. I mean 2 can play his game. TEll him a day next week youll be busy with your new boy friend and cant hang out on that date. See if it raises hairs on his head just like he did you.
2006-06-10 09:15:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to get you into bed. After that, he will disappear again. I am a man. I know how men think. That's the truth. Based on how he treats you, he has no respect for you. Stop talking to him completely, because he is not a good friend either. Move on. there are over 3 billion male humans in the world. He is but one.
2006-06-10 09:15:17 · answer #5 · answered by spudric13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay this guy keeps teasing you about being engaged. I think he likes you and wants to see how you react when he says he likes a new girl. Its his little game of making you jealous. You could try again but be careful that he is not playing with your feelings. hope everything turns out alright.
2006-06-10 09:14:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him and believe he likes you, then just sit down one day when the two of you are alone and tell him how you feel. Only two things will happen, he will tell you what he wants and two you will have gotten it off your chest and can stop wondering what if.
2006-06-10 09:17:56 · answer #7 · answered by Sexy Ty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just tough it out and see if anything happens from it all. ask him, jokingly, if he likes you. maybe he'll answer honestly - and you should be able to tell by what he sounds like when he answers. i wouldn't try anything too big or anything. you don't want to ruin your friendship, but i think if you ask him how he feels about you or if you ask him out casually things just might go from there. if he thinks that you like him and he doesn't like you hopefully you'll be good enough friends that he'll just tell you that. good luck!!!
2006-06-10 09:15:09 · answer #8 · answered by v.ball_17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you all? you sound like a bunch of immature kids GROW UP
2006-06-10 09:13:48 · answer #9 · answered by ~ Autum Girl ~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on your geographic location..[are you 10 or 12 ? ]
2006-06-10 09:13:49 · answer #10 · answered by Eric 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋