how do u tell your step dad you hate him,without braking your moms heart.i mean if your mom really loves him!
2006-06-10 08:59:48 · 9 answers · asked by baby gal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you dislike him then that is your problem. Hate is a strong word and if your old enough to be on here then you need to keep your feelings intact as to not hurt your Mother. Age and what has caused the dislike for him is one thing,but if it is just not liking him because he is with your Mother then realize one day you will be gone and if he treats her good allow her this happiness...
2006-06-10 09:04:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋
there's no need to tell him sweety.. do that only if he's not a good husband to your mom and doesn't love him.. there's nothing called a step dad.. you can either have a dad.. or someone else will be your mom's second husband.. i have a step dad too.. he can never be my father.. infact even expecting him to be like my dad will be an unfair expectation.. so just mind your life.. put this hatered into becoming someone your mom can be proud off.. if u put your mind onto something constructive you won't have the time to hate him.. no body deserves that importance.. as we think the most about those whom we hate the most and those whom we love the most.. and if u tell him u hate him.. then your mummy whom you love the most will be at an unfavourable position-of having to chose between her kid and hubby.. so try to avoid it.. but if he's really creating lots of trouble then you can probably sit him and your mum down and discuss your feelings with them-maturely as stagnant feelings often come out as an explosive flow of emotions.i hope it's just a communication gap which is making this trouble.. and everything will be sorted out for you.. do take care of yourself!! :-)
2006-06-10 09:09:19 · answer #2 · answered by BUBBLES 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends how your mom is, my step dad treated my sister and I awful and he was very abusive, I told the authorities on him and now she don't talk to me and I didn't even help the situation. I kept my daughter from getting hurt though and my mom chose him over me. If your mom would do that then you don't need her. Just tell him what you don't like about him and maybe he could try to do things differently to make you happy. If not don't worry about it just tell your mom how you feel. She is your mom unless she don't care about you, you come first. Good luck with that sweetie.
2006-06-10 11:13:45 · answer #3 · answered by catlins_playhouse 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Three easy words : I hate you. By the way, I suggest that you do not make it orally but in writing. Keep a copy so you can read it again for yourself in the years to come and see if it was worth it.
2006-06-10 09:28:16 · answer #4 · answered by alpha & omega 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do you hate him? If theres a valid reason, theres no problem in telling him on his face in front of your mom. But if you hate you for no reason then dont say anything.
2006-06-10 09:08:51 · answer #5 · answered by dog_hell_red 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it's tough but just try to grinn and bear it. You can be civil and try to get along even though you don't want to (unless he abuses you in any way). I think it's more likely that you won't care for your step-parents. They can never love you like a real parent, but sometimes life is hard. Best wishes to you.
2006-06-10 09:02:59 · answer #6 · answered by Just Me 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
u need to walk up to him and say to him that u hate him because he is breaking your mothers heart and he ought to be ashamed of himself for putting her through what ever.
2006-06-10 09:02:04 · answer #7 · answered by wedjb 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
simple just say i hate you its not hard.
2006-06-10 09:03:07 · answer #8 · answered by shadowsgirl24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You keep your mouth shut.
2006-06-10 09:02:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋