My boyfriend wants to become a women but I'm attracted to guys , should I try to talk him out of it.?

Answer 1

Let him do what he wants.. and then.. Run Away!!! Run away as fast as you can and find someone that doesn't have gender issues.

Answer 2

You have some tough decisions to make with your friend, and before any change can be affected. First of all, you shouldn't be able to talk him out of a " sex-change", it is more commonly known as gender-reassignment. Because, inside that head of his lives a woman already and the surgery is to put the body right with the mind. Secondly, do you love and support him for who he is? Well, that won't change. He will be the same person he is only after surgery and transition his male outward persona will be female.Be aware most relationships such as yours never have a chance of surviving this type of distraction and you might be well advised to move-on. But,....If you do care, you can support his/her with a mutual understanding that your needs will outweigh his needs. Then, possibly your present relationship with each other would evolve into a sister/like closeness.

IT IS YOUR LIFE SO TAKE IT BY THE REINS, AND RIDE IT THE WAY YOU WANT TO.

Answer 3

You two need to discuss this among yourselves. If he is really serious about becoming a women then if you love him then you should stand behind him, Though if the thought of him becoming a women is too much for you to bear then tell him that you can just be friends or there can never be a relationship between you. You first have to ask this question to yourself and decide how important your relationship with him is. I hope this helps.

Answer 4

If thats who he is then you cant change him.

But tell him that you are not attracted to women therefor you cannot be with him. This will be alot harder at first than if you convince him not to do it but in the long run he is better off doing it now rather than supressing it for years untill he cant take any more.

It seems that its going to ruin your relationship either way unless you can come to a compramise. Would you really want him to live a lie to keep you happy?

Answer 5

i think u should find yourself another boyfriend. u are probally a gay guy and you were with him because he is a man now he is having his gender issues and wants to feel like a woman so the best thing to do is to get urself another man. common sense. if u wanted a woman u would be with a woman tell him that. if he gives u that stuff about supporting him let him know u can be his friend and thats it. let him make his decision from there. good luck

Answer 6

NO!!! Its his body. If it doesn't work for you go else where. Don't condem him for your happiness. That's selfish. Just be honest and let him know that you want to support him and you want him to be happy, you think he's a great person but you aren't interested in being with a female. Good Luck.

Answer 7

Try talking to him but its what he wants. You have things you want and he has the same would you want him trying to change your mind on things you like.

Answer 8

Move on.......If you don't like women then as soon as he say's that I wouldn't consider myself his girlfriend anymore....that's his choice so don't try to talk him out of it....I'm not tyring to be mean but it's the truth

Answer 9

how seriuous is he...if really serious the u shoul work on how to move on and stay friends with him(or is it her) but if it is something he just fancies abit then u may have to see a therapist before he runs mad.

Answer 10

how does a guy become a women?
TALK HIM OUT OF IT

Answer 11

No, talk him into becoming some kind of animal instead. Maybe a shellfish. Got a thing for shellfish at all?